Activity for jillian

I tried on my dress today... its ok, not what i thought. but it still has to be altered.. now i'm all bummed out...and then i start to think about all the other details. and i dont think i like anything anymore. the wedding is this coming may!...

Any suggestions? nobody wants to give suggestions! ahh.. anything like ben harper, tracy chapman, adele, ray lamontagne. or anything old like sinatra. something not over done. a little different. slow and danceable of course : )

I want my flower girl to wear a pewter gray crinoline skirt under her dress. i can't find it ANYWHERE! i hear its hard to dye too. Does anybody know where I can find one already dyed? And cheap, would be awesome!

As of now, I think I'll e getting my period right on my wedding day! We'll be on St.Martin for a week right after. I'm sure theres nothing I can do, but what can i doo?!?!

What is everyone getting for gifts to their parents on the wedding day? Both of my parents are hard to buy for. I want to get them something unique. Suggestions?