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I'm looking for something unusual for these two events any suggestions?

I am currently working on the must/must not play list which my fiance forgot to do. Are there any suggestions or reminders of what not to have the dj play?

I'm looking for untraditional ceremony music ideas. My Uncle is playing the music on his acoustic guitar. My FH and I are not the mushy type so nothing overly lovey preferred....any suggestions?