Activity for NYBride

Is it Ghetto or Tacky to have 8 Ladies in the Bridal Party??? I have 1 Maid of Honor, 1 Matron of Honor, 6 Bridesmaids and a flower girl....but i think it may be too many! However, I'd like to incorporate everyone that's special to my fiance and I....

Who usually walks with the Best Man? The maid of Honor OR Matron of Honor? If it is the Maid of Honor, does the Matron walk by herself? It created a problem for me and my fiance because he ONLY has 1 Best Man but I have a Maid AND Matron of Honor....

What color shoes/accessories should my girls wear???

We've guaranteed 150 people at the catering/reception hall. How many people should we actually invite, to make sure that at least 90-95% of our guests attend?

A little about me: Hi Everyone, I'm a NYC bride...getting married in Long Island. My wedding is May 17th, 2009 & we have: - booked photographer/videographer - booked Florist - booked DJ - I've payed down on my dress I want to send my Save the Dates...