Activity for Vanessa

I live in San Diego where the average wedding cost $25,000 and I naivley thought I could do it for $7000. I will know if I can pull this off if I can find a caterer for under 100-130 for under $5000 and it must include the drinks...

I really want to get married ringing in the New Year, but I can't seem to find an affordable venue that will allow use of facility after midnight? Any suggestions or ideas?