Activity for Trixie325

So it's starting to become clear that my mom is having some jealously issues in regards to my FMIL... who by the way I don't think anyone could NOT like... any advice because it's making the planning so stressful.

Wedding is mid October.. when is it too late or too early to have the bridal shower?

My dad and I absolutely NEED something a little upbeat! Or else we're going to just stand in the middle of the room bawling our eyes out haha

Our wedding is very non-traditional... we're doing chef stations and no seating chart.... all the weddings we've been to you either get your favor when you sit down or when you find your table number. Someone suggested we do koozies and the bartender...