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So I know this is kinda boring and not a big deal but I don't know which is better for my dinner reception. We're having a salad, pizza and pasta buffet. Do you think the compartment plates are better or should I just go for standard?

I don't really care about flowers and I love the look of candles. I just want a ton of candles as my centerpieces. However, is it a bad idea if there will be kids present at my wedding?

So I'm having a destination wedding in Florida with just immediate family. About 20 people. Then having a big reception when I get home. Anyways, I am renting a gazebo on the beach and the beach will be secluded in the evening. What do you think...