Activity for Mrs Schmidt

I'm currently in stage 3 of IDGAF Mode. Apparently, we didn't invite FMIL's cousin but invited the rest of the cousin's family. Well she got all crazy on FMIL and now FMIL is insisting we send her an invite. Part of me is like no, but we're just...

Not to hate too much on my FMIL, but she worries too much about what everyone will think. Granted we've closed our guestlist, but she keeps wanting to add more people. This would be fine, if we had invitations to spare, and time to add rsvps. Granted...

FH and I invited 195 people. A nice mixture of family and friends on each side. So far we stand at 81, and last night he wanted to look at the list. He counted 12 people from his side, and I just watched his heart sink. I know ppl can't make every...

It was actually cute!! He was stressing over what to buy his groomsmen and groomswomen. Too cute! Has your FH stressed about anything?

Ok, i'm getting married in Md in case any MD brides know how this is done. IF the officiant signs the certificate, can he sign as a witness? I sign using my maiden name, right? When the officiant lists his affiliation, he puts the church he serves...

Just got this awesome rsvp (note sarcasim) from my FMIL for her friend plus one. Clearly not coming. backstory: went through this whole crap w/ FMIL , and FH, both telling me that we HAVE to give a plus one to this person or she won't come. I didn't...

From previous posts, not in a way you would think. In fact the response I got back from her was needless to say, unexpected in such a good way. Basically I was asking both sets of parents assistance with getting ahold of the no responses after Sat...

What are your flavors? Chocolate w/ a chocolate ganache and crushed strawberries? Vanilla w/ a chocolate buttercream? or did you go outrageous with a chocolate cake, and peanut butter filling? Share! Share! base tier - almond cake brushed w/ kahlua...

Last night had my first fitting and it went well. We got rid of the underskirt (excess layers of tulle) and what a relief that we did. I'd be kicking my way down the aisle w/ the amount of stuff under my skirt. Of course my short self needs to get...

My mom wants to put all her loved ones at a few big tabes. I told her to work on her list of where she would LIKE people and FH and I will look at it. Obviously I'll keep some of her wishes, but at the reception the feel we're going for is we're all...

I can't believe our rsvp deadline is upon us! Feels like I just sent out the invitations!!! So weird. Hopefully people rsvp in time. We've invited 190 people and we've only gotten 68 accepted. I really hope people get it into gear. =) Talked w/ FH...

Ok, so I recall the conversation w/ our vendor about us having to pay for 100 people. That's the venue's minimum in terms of food and drink. Well bless my mom who doesn't pay attention, but now she's making a big stink about it. We may end up w/ 70...

How many people have asked if they can bring someone? We just got 5 ppl. Shaking my head. I think it's rude but that's just me.

What do you think? Maybe I annoy you with my choices Well, you annoy me sometimes too with your voice But that ain't enough for me To move out and move on I'm just gonna love you like the woman I love We don't have to hurry You can take as long as...

I'm really excited to reveal my finalized menu...but we're keeping it a secret from guests for now.lol So i'll share here...(fyi, this is word for word on the menu provided by the cater. so if it sounds churched up, it probably is) Appetizers: Intl...