Activity for Hannah

I know that dry weddings aren't very popular on here, but that has confused me a little, at the time of my wedding I will be 20 and my FH will be 24, our families have a mix of people that drink alcohol and those that don't, majority of our guests...

I've been struggling w/ being OK w/ this idea. Due to several issues, but mostly budget constraints, my FH & I had decided to not add on the open-bar option for the whole night. Instead, we are offering 1 hour of open cocktail bar, 1 glass of wine...

Just here to get opinions on cash bar or open bar?? Will I look cheap to not pay for my guest to drink?

I was wondering would it be crazy for me to through or help with my bridal shower... I'm the type of person the loves to entertain and through events so I kinda have a problem when an event isn't done right so I want to be involved in the planning...