Activity for Julie

Okay, girls, no offense to the 20 somethings, but I'm a 2nd timer. Everyone tells me I look younger than I am, but I just turned 40, I'm not in bad shape, but I'm not 25 that's for sure! I would like to have a very elegant, lacy, beaded dress....with...

My dress is ivory, my fiance insists on a black tux. So I thought of a medium cafe latte & black, colored up a bit with ivory/lavender/soft pink flowers. My table linens in the latte with black napkins...and the soft flower arrangements with...