Discussions by Zoni

Less than two months before the wedding, and I'm tired of waiting or my FW to actually get off her butt and do things. She insists she wants to be involved, but when I tell her we actually need to do...

Less than two months to go and I just feel like I'm going out of my mind. There's so much to organize and coordinate! And our wedding is at a site that's two hours away from us. We're driving down...

My FW and I have been driving the death trap that is our well-duct taped '96 Oldsmobile Cierra since October. She previously didn't have a car, and I moved up here without one, so we purchased the...

Well, it happened. I finally had a wedding nightmare, probably inspired by the fact that we had to buy a car unexpectedly, further limiting our already stretched budget. I know I've been kind of idle...

So, I was wondering -- how paranoid are you about people knowing things about you online? I'm very active online, and I'm easy to find (though I find it utterly bizarre that there's more than one...

So, some of you may already know that our hair and make-up girl cancelled on us this week unexpectedly. That leaves us with a serious problem. Our wedding takes place near a small town, one with very...

FW found a centerpiece at a local grocery store that she liked, and we came up with a unique way to duplicate it and fit it to our theme and us in general. However, it requires me to waterproof paper....

I finally bought my dress! Yay. It's an A-line, and I quite love it. What I didn't love was the asking price of an appropriate slip from the...

This week has been very good for wedding stuff. We got a few things straightened out, we both got our dresses (yay!) and I thought everything was going great. Then, last night, my fiancée gets a text...

If you're looking for a vent, this isn't it. Let me start off with a fact: my mother is what most person would consider unpleasant. Not in her mannerisms (she's actually quite nice and very polite),...

My FW and I want to put something into our wedding regarding how we met. That seems simple enough, but unfortunately, the exactly "how we met" makes it problematic. We technically met thanks to mutual...

... and quickly discovered that she has no idea how to address invitations. Or envelopes in general. Bonus points for the fact that she already put stamps on the envelopes, so I can't just use new...

It looks like the spam bots are evolving. I notice one of the accounts is now sporting a user picture with a swimsuit. Guys, we're going to need a bigger can of bot-RAID.

So my FW's mother has announced, just this week, that she wants to pay for our flowers. This is due to the fact that we had very few real flowers before, all DIYed due to our microscopic budget. FMIL...

I consider myself extremely laidback when it comes to wedding planning. While FW and I have been planning, I've mostly taken to making suggestions and let my FW say yes or no, which has worked pretty...

When my FW and I picked our date, we thought it was ideal -- before the school year started, after the hottest part of the year and in-between our life's expected chaos of her college, an impending...

...wrangled their FMIL into "helping" their future spouse make decisions? My FW is dragging her heels on everything, and I've basically teamed up with my FMIL so we can get her to actually make some...

Okay, let's see if I can figure out how to word this so that it makes sense. FW and I are getting hitched at a state park. Gorgeous place. We've also rented a pavilion for our reception. The pavilion...

I approached the subject of dancing at our reception today with my FW, who boldly declared that she hates dancing. I'm not exactly fantastically enthusiastic about it myself, but I think it'd be...

This is mostly a question out of curiosity. I'm Norse pagan, my FW is non-religious. We're incorporating parts of my religion into the ceremony (and my FW absolutely loved the suggestions!), but I...