Discussions by TheFutureMrsPatmore

So we went and tasted with two caterers this weekend. Both were great but one really stood out. Here's my question…is the amazing food worth the extra $5000 we will need to spend. The other...

So I'm going dress shopping for the first time tomorrow. I'm more than a little nervous and slightly dreading it actually. Is there any advice you ladies could give. Should I bring heels?

When is everyone leaving for their honeymoon? We still need to pick a location but since we are getting married on a Saturday I think we will wait a few days. We will have a vacation rental so we can...

I know I'm being silly but it's snowing here and the FH has to drive home from work later in the commuter car, a Honda Civic with no cables! A few prayers for his safe journey would be appreciated. I...

So I just posted about finances and it made me wonder if anyone was doing a prenup? I have holdings I inherited from my family as well as a home I own outright and we are putting on the market next...

The FH had to work a overtime tonight and he's had a rough week at work. I decided to wait up and have his after work meal ready for him along with freshly baked Peanut Butter & Nutella cookies. I'm...

So what is everyone's idea of standards of FB etiquette for posting about the wedding? Should it not be done at all? Limited? Should I create a list so when I post wedding related things only those...

So I'm at the FIL's for the holiday weekend and his family is much more conservative than mine. It has never been discussed but when we stay with one of his family members we sleep in separate beds. I...

Am I crazy that I don't wear my ring all the time. I take it off to sleep, shower and do things where it might get dirt in the delicate crevices. We were inspired by a Tacori setting and it's super...

I'm still a ways away but I was wondering for those things you may have overlooked at first. We all tackle things like the dress and venue but what were the little things you said "Ooops I forgot…"...

So I've seen it done both ways…where guest receiving their seating info before the wedding or after during cocktail hour. What are you doing? I don't want people having to crowd around the table...

So I'm 35 (yikes!), the FH and I live together and own our home. He moved in last August and we combined houses then. Here's the problem...I love to cook and have so many items people would register...

We will not be doing a first look and be having a cocktail hour during that time. When do you think is the best time for the dances? Some do the first dance right away and then move straight to...

I was wondering if anyone knows how caterers charge for children? We only have a few on the list so far but I'm thinking about opening it up to more. Before we do so I want to know how it will impact...

So I wanted to know everyones thoughts on plus ones. I wanted a small destination wedding and my fiance wanted to have more family there so we compromised on a small wedding in wine country since we...