Discussions by Soon to be FRY

How necessary are rehearsal invites? We are having a luncheon instead of a dinner and the guest count is 14-15 including my parents, FH's parents, siblings, bridal party and their SO's, and officiant....

So we finally decided on a wedding favor that we both like. I know wedding favors are not necessary and some may think they are a waste of time, but our wedding will be a DW for almost every guest so...

I can't decide what I want our centerpieces to look like. I have a few different ideas bouncing around my head and I don't know what the best thing to do would be. We are getting married in the...

Help a sister out, are these faux pas or not? 1. the couple not greeting the guests as they arrive? 2. putting the time on the invitation earlier than the ceremony start time? 3. Having porta potties?...

What are your thoughts on having some disposable cameras around the tables for guests to take pictures from their point of view? I am hiring a professional photographer! I just think that this might...

What do I put on a details card if I am not blocking out hotel rooms for guests? The invites I am going to order are a set: invite, rsvp card, and details card. Do I just put directions?

We bought our wedding bands today!!! We went out just to look and we were going to go to a few different places but at the first stop we knew we didn't need to go any further. We both found the...

FH and I don't want a DJ or band, nor is it in our budget so we are planning on having playlists either through itunes or spotify. Our venue will have a sound system to use for this. Does anyone haven...

What are your favorite skin and hair products that your using to prepare for the big day? I'm using st. Ives oatmeal face wash + mask to wash my face and do masks once a week and at night I use...

So a few of people have already told me they won't be able to come to my wedding because of other weddings on the same day or around the same time but far away. Do I still invite them even if I know...

How is a polite way to let my bridesmaids know to purchase their dresses. The site they are going to order from says it'll take up to 4 months and I want to make sure they have enough time incase any...

Just for funsies, what are some of your guys' wedding accessories??

So I'm pretty close with my coworker and I watch her baby girl all the time. She just turned a year old a month ago. I would love her to be my flower girl, around the time of the wedding she will be...

Help! FH and I are in love with sackscloth & ashes blankets. We would love one for our wedding, is there a way to go about asking for just this one item? ((I clearly don't know the ettiquite/if this...

So I'm having a MOH and two bridesmaids, however FH can only find 2 guys that he wants to be apart of our day. Is it weird if we have three bridesmaids and only two groomsmen?

I'm having trouble deciding if I'm supposed to pay for my BM's dresses or let them. We haven't talked about it yet, but I want to be prepared for when/if the topic arises. Did you guys pay for your...

So after FH and I got engaged I immediately asked his sister to be my maid of honor. I had planned to leave it at that but now I'm feeling guilt for not including my sister and my friend who was...

I'm getting married on July 29th, when is a good time to book for a hair/makeup artist? Also, have any of you brides done your own makeup on your big day? One last thing, is a trial for hair...