Discussions by Shaquaya

FH goes to a get together with his group of friends. He comes home & he's like everybody asked about you (I wasn't in a social mood this night), they wanted to know where u were. Then he says "Oh &...

I'm in the single digits! This just doesn't seem real, or maybe it does. Everyone keeps asking what I need help with (fine time to ask) & I can't think of a thing. I'm so afraid to say "I'm done"...

I'm supposed to be celebrating my 30th bday this weekend & my last weekend as a single woman (bachelorette weekend)! My MOH & the 1 BM who lives here are both going out of town this weekend so neither...

The closer we get to the wedding the more I cannot sleep at all. FH was snoring away at about 4 am & I was up staring at the ceiling knowing the alarm would go off in 2 hours. Then I was sick again...

So my 1 BM who has given me some sort of grief the whole way through is now telling me she can't attend the rehearsal because she is getting her nails & toes done that day. I tried to explain to her...

We met with our pastor last night to discuss the ceremony and how we want it. He gave us a profile to fill out in case there was anything he didn't know about us (he's known me since I was like 9,...

Ok I only need a few more items to buy but it's gonna cost me about $550. I'm really sitting here debating if we need this stuff, like silverware LOL. Ok I know we need silverware but geez I...

So from the beginning he didn't want a wedding. He was fine with going to the JP. He only did this because it is what I wanted. The other day we were having a conversation and he told me he's not...

Ok so I love the original decor of my church. My pastor's wife is so creative and she decorates it so nicely as the seasons change. Currently she has some type of white flowers in vases surrounding...

I wanted to do our first dance as soon as we're announced, just go right into it. Then I was gonna do father/daughter dance, dinner, toasts, party, cake cutting, bouquet/garter toss, party some more....

Ok so we have 89 people who have RSVP'd. Each table holds 10 people so I had in my mind that we would have 9 tables from the beginning. That means there is only 1 extra seat! Now I'm worried about...

I saw the post yesterday where everyone was bragging about how great their BMs have been. All 4 of mine are my sisters and 3 of them have been great but my older sister has complained about...

FH put our sons as his GMs and his best friend who lives in Georgia as his BM. We hadn't heard from the BM for a few months. We updated him on what he needed and that was it. Well yesterday he was...

So I've already told you guys how my mom isn't coming to my wedding because of a fight we had on Christmas. At first I was very upset by this, I mean who doesn't want their mom to be part of their big...

At this point I'm worried about waste. I don't want to have a bunch of crap left over. I definitely want the chocolate fountain and my best friend has offered to help with the costs of the candy...

I still have to... Pay balance on cake Get BP gifts Get unity sand kit Finish escort cards Buy more alcohol Get marriage license I'm surprised my list is that short because I'm a huge procrastinator!...

So my mother and I have not really spoken since Christmas. We got into a huge argument & she tried to get physical with me. Since then she has been saying she's not coming to the wedding. I tried...

I'm including this as a "gift" in my BMs tote bags. I'm running out of ideas, here's what I have: band aids, wet naps, eos lip balm, tissues, spot removing wipes, bottle of water, aspirin. And that's...