Discussions by MrsMtobe

Sooooo I'm getting married tomorrow. I'm not nervous or stressed or any of the things I think I'm supposed to be feeling. I can't wait to marry the man of my dreams but I'm super calm and it seems to...

Our officiant emailed us an example service the other day for us to look over. Everything seemed fined but it looks like the rings come after he pronounces us husband and wife. Is this normal? I've...

What can I do but laugh? One if the GM got arrested and will not be able to be in the wedding. It's fine, not that big of a deal. (He's kind of bad news anyways and I'm selfishly relieved because he...

My plan is to have small bouquets done for VIP women instead of corsages because they remind me of prom instead of a wedding. Is this weird? Thoughts?

Pretty much my whole family is team "wait 10 years to have kids." I'm young and have no intentions on having kids so but come on! All I hear is "Don't break the bows!" "You're too young to have...

Omg. I live in the south so this time of the day it's A.C. during the day heater at night. Neither one were working!! Landlord called (while I was in a meeting in NC) and said somebody was coming out...

My mom said I don't need to use wedding gifts before we're married. Is this weird mother superstition or is it a real thing?

How many of you did them? I'm going in 2 weeks to have them done, and I have no idea what to expect! Any advice? A bottle of wine to go please?

I have waaayyy too many names. (Double first name, middle name, and last name.) I'm going to drop my middle name and keep my maiden name and FH name when I'm married. I live in the south so obviously...

I posted a few weeks ago about pros and cons for consumption vs open bar. I think we were all a little confused about my venues definition of each one. I asked venue coordinator and she said open...

Title pretty much says it all. I absolutely love my mother to pieces, she's my best friend, but she's getting a bit crazy. My parents are graciously paying for the wedding so yes, they have a huge...

I was a BM in my friend's (?) Wedding back in June. We haven't hung out or anything really in about 5 years. I feel like I was just a bridesmaid out of convenience, ie even numbers, they used my...

Just need to vent so bare with me. About 7 this morning I was having really bad cramps. I have a history of ovarian cysts so I thought that's what it was. I was about to leave for work and it became...

We are doing a consumption bar for reception with wine, beer, champagne, and 2 signature cocktails. My dad didn't think this was enough and maybe adding a few other liquor drinks. I think a cut off...

I had made a post about showers before that got kind of heated. I know it's common courtesy to not invite the same people to multiple showers. What about bridesmaids? I'm not being gift grabby. These...

Ahhh I'm so freaking relieved!!! FINALLY booked a musician! He can sing and DJ and do ceremony music for $750!! I'm ecstatic y'all have no idea. What has relieved everyone else of wedding...

I'm starting to feel crunched for time, again!! 2 of my BMs live out of town. One is in CA and one in Mobile. I'm really stressed about having to mail the dress to BM in Cali. They aren't going to be...