Discussions by Melissa

I'm moving from upstate NY to SC in 3 weeks. We're keeping our wedding as is and coming back to NY for it in 5 months. The discussion about my shower came up today and I could use some advice. I am...

As I've said a million times now, I'm moving to South Carolina from New York at the end of October. We're keeping the wedding in New York since we're only 6 months out. We're trying to make a plan to...

Last week I posted how my fiancé got a job offer in SC, so he accepted. We now are to be down by the end of October, yes next month from NY. My dress is coming in at the same time, so I may get it and...

Fh and I are relocating to South Carolina from New York at the end of next month. My dress is also scheduled to come in at the end of next month. I called the shop and they checked on it and said it's...

So last week I posted how my fiancé interviewed for Husk in Greenville. Well he got the offer. And he's probably going to take it. Which means we'll be moving from upstate NY to Greenville probably by...

Fh and I live in upstate ny. We have been planning for a while now to relocate to SC later next year after the wedding. Fh is a chef and I'm an assistant manager at a credit union. For anyone who is...

199 days to go! I can't believe I finally have a 1 in front of my countdown. 2018 is almost here! How are we feeling??? We have a meeting with our new officiant next week to sign the contract. I'll be...

Fh and I took a day today to take a drive to Vermont, hang out, and just relax. We got to talking about the wedding and he said "I wish we could have just eloped in South Carolina" and I'm not going...

Just over 6 months to go and our guest list is concrete. Our venue is intimate, which we like because we wanted to keep it that way. With our layout, it fits exactly 8 tables of 8, 64 guests. Our...

I've been toying with the idea for a while to do a boudoir. My wedding photographer has been doing them for years but recently started to pick up a lot more of them. So I finally pulled the trigger...

Has anyone used the black tux? It was recommended for us by someone else, and it's frequently in my emails from the knot. I just ordered fh a free at home try on of a suit (completely free!). We're...

I have super fine baby soft hair, but I have a lot of it. I typically don't put any product in it, except heat protection on my ends in the rare case I blow dry it. By the end of a day my hair is an...

Sorry for the second post of the day, this is wedding related and I swear I'm done after this. Let's just start by saying I am not planning my shower. My sister reached out today and asked when I...

Just curious how far out did you notify your employers of the time off for your wedding/hm? A coworker looked at me like I was crazy the other day when she asked if I took it off yet and I said no. I...

I've been down and out with Tonsillitis all week. I've attempted work 2 days only to go home early both days. This is kicking my ass and I'm frustrated beyond belief. Haven't had a solid meal since...

I can't tell anyone at work because they're still notifying other candidates. But I got a promotion! I'm really excited. I've been at my job for 3 years, I'm a teller at a credit union. I've been...