Lydia

Hello! My name is Lydia and my groom is Julian. We met in Portland, Orego. And that is where we will get married! We met through frinds. At the time I was living with my sister.  I had recently left my parents' house and religion and they disowned me when I did this. So all I had was my sister I lived with. I was 19 and she was 23. I also have a 22 year old brother, and my 21 year old sister. Life with my oldest sister was not going well. When I told her I was thnking of dating one of my best friends, she was really happy. And then she met him and got to know him. My older sister is very controlling. At the time I lived with her and her fiance. And she was 6 months pregnant. I was working, planning her baby shower, cleaning her house, and when I did have alone time she suddenly wouldn't let me see my new boyfriend. Her fiance lost his job. He wasn't looking for work. He wasn't helping my sister at all. I would get home at eleven p.m. from work. My brother in law was playing video games. I would get yelled at for not havng food on the table, even though I was the only one working. Needless to say things just got worst. I look back and I'm so gald I had Julian! He helped me so much when I moved out of her house. I was actually kicked out because I told her I loved Julian and wanted to move in. Before I could move out, she told me to get my stuff and leave. She wouldn't hug me goodbye. I wound up helping my other sister move out of my parent's house. She has been a great supportive sister! She will be my Maid of Honor. I 'm so glad I have her! She's now helping me plan the wedding. I'm spending the holidays with my in laws. I can't wait for our wedding to be here. And I'm so glad Julian helped me when I needed him in my roughest times! He's been such a supportive man, and I wouldn't change our relationship for anything!