Discussions by Julia

Ok, so I was home for Easter, and my mom was trying to convince me to put all of her cousins on a B-list so that when people don't respond we can invite them. I told her that I thought B-lists were...

So I just found out that FH's stag party is going to be, like 35 guys. The wedding is in less than a month. Only about 12 of these guys are invited to the wedding. WTF? Is that normal? Is it horribly...

I have my shower tonight (it is actually my 3rd small shower - lots of chunks of family in different areas.) It is quite informal, just my local friends and my mom at a hibachi grill, there will...

I had all this stuff saved in the binder feature. Readings, vows, songs to walk down the aisle to... Did they get rid of that feature or just move it somewhere? I am kind of freaking out right now....

We are doing wine charms as our favors. Do we do one set per couple or one per guest?

My bridal shop wants $270 for my veil, which, to me, seems like an outrageous price for some bedazzled tulle that I'm only planning on wearing for about 2 hours including pictures and...

The touchy guest list who gets plus one question: On my dad's side of the family, my cousins have 6 children (all college age) who will be invited to my wedding. 2 are out of college and will be...

Hey Ladies! I came across this, while searching for readings for our ceremony. It's from one of my favorite books, but I can't mentally separate it from the context of the book because I'm so...

By it, of course,I mean your new name. It just (kind of) happened to me. We got a wedding invitation from some friends addressed to "Mr. and Mrs. His Name." Of course, his name was spelled wrong, and...

I need to set up a block of rooms for my oot guests. Please share your experiences! How do I know I/my guests are getting a good deal? How many rooms/hotels should I book at? What kind of fine print...

I am feeling bummed (again.) I only have 2 BMs, both my closest friends. One is local, the other is in DC, 7 hours away. I asked both girls to be BMs in January. The one in DC said she wouldn't be...

I made my brother my Man of Honor because we are really close and wanted him to stand up for me. He is taking the role so seriously and wants to make things special for me. It's so sweet. My Aunt...

Thinking about incorporating blue diamonds in my wedding band. I am thinking channel set to match with either all blue or every other blue/white. Will the fact that blue jewelry doesn't go with...

Ok, my brother (my man of honor) is in a sticky shower situation and needs advice. My mom's sister is planning me a shower for July. Since that side of family is about 4 hours from me and 2 hours from...

FH and I finally found a band that we LOVE for our wedding. They are the sound and style that we are looking for, but I don't think they actually do many weddings. This worries me, because generally...

FH has convinced me to go with his next door neighbor's daughter (adult) to do our wedding photos. She did his sister's wedding for a great deal, and the pictures were nice (not spectacular, but...

I finally saw a troll post BEFORE it was flagged! I always hear about them after the fact and wonder what craziness I missed out on and how on earth I have never seen these things. Yay! I feel a...

So before I get any lectures, I KNOW that I can not just expect a bridal shower and that I should be grateful that people are doing anything at all for me. My aunt and grandmother offered to throw me...

Exactly a year from today is my wedding day! And today is also our 8 year anniversary! FH says he has something planned, and I can't wait to find out. If only I could kick this cold and really enjoy...