Discussions by Jen

So... We booked a DJ back in December, literally right after we put the deposit check in the mail my mom's good friend tells us that she would dj for us as a wedding gift (she actually dj's...

After going back and forth and back again about colors and designs of this crazy thing, I finally finished it.....

I picked up my dress today (I still have some alterations to go through) but I never got "that" feeling trying on any of the dresses. I'm not second guessing my dress or thinking maybe theres...

Our colors are purple and yellow. I want my bridesmaids to have yellow bouquets, my MoH purple bouquet and my bouquet to have both the yellow and purple flowers. The problem is I havent been able to...

My younger brother(hes 20) and I are very very close and I want to make sure that he has a part in the wedding. My dad is not in the picture so my MOH and bridesmaid suggested that maybe he walk me...

I was going to go it alone, but so many people seem very concerned about that so I've been thinking about asking my younger brother to walk me down the aisle. Is anyone walking it alone? Or having...

My FH and I found the perfect ceremony site, its a park that overlooks that ocean, its beautiful. I was finally able to contact the town offices today and they told me that the park is "first come...

I want a cake topper that is cute and unique. Does anyone have any ideas? Friends of ours used these adorable love birds in a nest as their cake topper and its just the kind of thing I'm looking for,...

Are you ladies getting your FH a gift on the wedding day? If so, what are you thinking about giving him or have already given him (for you already married ladies)?

Although I really like all the wedding planning tools online I was thinking about getting one of those books. I dont know why but sometimes I like things laid out on paper in front of me. So I was...

How did you go about finding your DJ? Did you get recommendation from friends/family? Just searched and found one on your own? How did you decide to go with that DJ?

I've seen that a lot of people think that having a cash bar is "tacky" and that guests "should never be expected to pay for anything at the reception, if you cant afford an open bar, invite less...

What are you doing for the rehearsal dinner? I really dont think that we can afford to take everyone out to dinner, so I was wondering, does anyone has any less expensive ideas?

My fiance and I want to tango for our first dance. Kind of surprise all our guests because we are not the dancing type. I was wondering if anyone took dance lessons for their wedding how far in...