Discussions by FutureMrsUpdike

MIL keeps talking crap about FH and myself and im beyond fed up. FH agrees to not invite her. My mom however says the right thing to do is invite her. I know I have posted about this before but im so...

My only thing I was iffy about is if the guys should be in white shirts and my hubbys tie is white when my dress is ivory. Hmmm

Anyone else having a hard time picking one? I have like 15 favorited on Etsy. I want something that I can use for decor around the house later.

Are you picking them or leaving it up to your future husband? How far in advance do you choose the style?

Along with her husband. She also said that she would be by this week to get $ from me for what she paid for her dress. I laughed and told her no way. She dropped out Im not buying a dress from...

I had posted awhile ago how my FMIL invited my FHs children to her xmas thru his exes but didn't invite us or the child we have together (he is 2) Well one of his exes called her and my FMIL said she...

Is anyone doing a special song during the cake cutting? We have a song for when we enter the reception and playing soft background music during the meal so I guess we might as well do a song for cake...

I really wanted to walk out after "I now announce Mr & Mrs ..." to the Adam Sandler song I wanna grow old with you and my man said "Absolutely NOT!!" What are some songs you are having?

How are you seating them during your ceremony? Both mine are remarried, I just know my dad and stepmother will throw a fit if they are close to my mom but its my day and what I want....just need...

I would like to do the shoe game. I just dont know where to throw it in during the reception. If you're unfamiliar with this game YouTube it...its really cute

What options are out there? If I glue my own nails they always come off. Acrylics make my nails hurt after I get them done.Someone said something about gel tips. Does this add length to your nails? Im...

Mine are he never shuts the shower curtain, he doesnt hang his towel on the rack right (he just bunches it on there) and he takes clothes off and leaves them by the bed. Oh and he leaves pop can after...

I have picked the songs that I want sang during my ceremony. How far in advance do you usually let them know? Do I purchase the sheet music?

Im trying to pick out music. So far Im thinking a song for mothers to be seated. Bridesmaids entrance. My entrance. Sand ceremony. Exit. Am I missing anything?

Are you ladies wearing it on your right or left hand??

My future MIL has invited my fiances children to her xmas and we arent invited along with our son which I think is a bitch move. Anyways, I am thinking she doesnt need to receive an invite to our...

I am back and forth on whether I want all my girls to walk alone of just the MOH. Plus we have 4 children involved and I know I want the flower girl to walk alone but the 3 boys are 11,8, and 2. I...

There will be my FH, Myself, my son, his son, his daughter, and our son together. didnt want a whole bunch of colors. So far I have purple white and black. How do people usually go about pouring in...

When is the proper time to roll the runner out? After the MOH walks down? Before flower girl...im trying to plan the walking order out. Also can my flower girl walk to the start of my song?

Sorry I ask a lot of questions on here but my gfs are always so busy. How many months ahead did you shop around for alterations? Im NOT doing mine at place I bought my dress because it starts at...