Future Mrs. Brzana

Our story is so all over the place LOL. We met in High School...in 1999. He was a football player, I was a cheerleader. We both were in relationships, but we were friends--who secretly had crushes on each other and neither of us knew the other did!!!!! Year of 2000 Tom gets married to his high school girlfriend...which ends in divorce 8 months later!!! We lose contact...Tom goes off to college. Year of 2005 I am in a rocky relationship and get pregnant with my adorable son Dominic. I stay in a love-less relationship for 3 years :(  In the meantime.....I ran into Tom in 2006 at a work party....since we are both in the dental field we were bound to cross paths again!!! YAY!! We play catch-up....and all of my giddy crush feelings come in. He felt the same way....but I was there with my son's father so he kept his distance. Year of 2008 Found Tom on Facebook!! We started chatting and sending messages back and forth. The messages became longer and longer each time and we got  to the point that we were online obsessively checking our Facebook to see if the other person wrote back! He broke the ice with giving me his phone number and saying I should call him sometime and we can go get some drinks. *Meanwhile* I am STILL in that love-less relationship with my son's father....I tried so hard to make it work for his sake, but this guy was ALL wrong for me, and the constant pressure to marry someone that I do not love because we have a child together was making me miserable. And on top of being controlled......ahhh but anyways so I got up the nerve and called Tom one day and said we should meet up with some friends. So I got a few of my friends and he got his and we all got together at a local bar. The chemistry was intense between us. It just felt so right. After 2 weeks of thinking about him and feeling guilty for smiling when I thought about him, I finally ended that love-less relationship! June 1, 2008 Tom and I started dating! And we fell in love :) We share so much in common....birthday weekends, our careers and interests....perfect match <3 We moved in together one year later....he has helped me raise my son since he was 2 years old, and has been more of a father than his biological father. He has been there for me during the hell of dental hygiene school with recruiting patients, studying for hours into the night etc.... March 19, 2010 Tom and I were in Vegas for a dental convention, and that is when he popped the question. We both do not want a "traditional" wedding...so we are getting married in Vegas on February 19th 2011!!!!! We couldn't be happier!!!!!!!