chrystal

me and eli met when i was 21 through my ex bf on febuary 14th 2008. and we became very good friends once i moved into their house in chester pa. well 6 months into me and my fiancee's relationship i relized this was a big mistake and that i believed in my heart that me and eli were met to be together. about a year and a half later me and my ex relationship was over. not offically but we longer had sex or really communicated we did more fighting then anything.so finally i said to myself i have had enough. im tired of getting treated lower then dirt i said there has to be someone better for me. and thats what i basically did, on august 4th 2009 me and eli had our first date. we met up in media pa cause i had a doctors appontment and decided to meet up afterwards. so we went out to lunch and expressed our love for eachother. we didnt say we loved eachother in fact it took us a while to say i love u. we just said how much we cared about eachother. basically that day he dedicated the whole day to me. he treated to lunch. and i ended up spending the night with eli. will after spending the whole day and night with eli i decided i wanted to be with eli over my ex bf. you see my ex abused me both physically and mentally. and also verbally he called me a fat bitch etc. so finally my ex made me come back cause he threatened to throw my belongings out. my ex locked me in a room and beat the crap out of me more then usual . so by a miracle i acted like i still cared a lil about my ex. and he gave me my old cell phone back on the promise i wouldnt call for help. make a long story short i ended up calling eli. and him and his friends rescued me. and adventually i returned back to my parents and with their help. i got a permanent restraing order against my ex. and me and eli got engaged dec 25th 09. we had to wait three years to be together. but its worth every moment. were not living together but are working on that.