Discussions by Chip

Back story - There is a very toxic woman (LC), we used to work together and we are on the board of directors for a club together. This woman is insane, she manipulates people for fun and lies and...

So I was talking with FH last night, and he was telling his mom about our plans so far (nothing solid yet, just general ideas). So she asked him what the parents of the groom usually pay for.. well he...

Who spent the night regularly with their partner before marriage? Who moved in before? Who waited? What are your reasons/views? I've always been an advocate for living together before marriage,...

Hey all, we're starting to get together a rough guest list so we can start booking vendors. The reception venue I really love has a capacity (for a sit-down dinner) of 180, and ideally we would only...

Show me! Who wore boots to their wedding/reception? What brand/style? I'm planning on wearing nice shoes for the ceremony, but boots for the reception. I live in my boots when I'm not at work, but...

FH and I love to dance, but we aren't very good outside of the basics. We want to learn to dance for our wedding (he has a dirty dancing-type dance style in his head, haha). Has anyone taken lessons...

I was reading the thread about centerpieces and saving money, got me thinking.. What are your top 5 things you think are totally okay to skip on/leave out? Top 5 things you must have/cant go cheap on?...

What is the ettiquite for this? I'd never heard of it until recently. Having to worry about it is still a ways off, but my SO and I were talking a little bit about it today. He wants the church at our...

Hey ladies, are there any CoC members that could shed some light? We're not quite planning yet, in the very early stages, just wondering what to expect (more specifically expectations from his family)...

Not for my wedding, but for a friends. I’m not an “invited guest”, but I’m invited to come to the reception. A friend of ours is getting married in a few weeks. My boyfriend is DJing the event, and...