carol

Wow will we meet through my ex-husband. They were friends kinda, Monte my fiance said that the only reason he and my ex ran around together was so he could get to know me better. Monte is the most amazing man I have ever meet. He treats me like I'm a queen. So back to our story we each ended up marring other people and his ex-wife didnt' like me from the word go. So we all went different ways and ended up in really bad marriages, that obviously ended in divorce. Monte has always been friend with my brother, My brother his ex-wife and 3 kids was living with me and my 2 kids and Monte started coming around and we had that instant attraction to each other all over again the plus side we where both single at the same time finally and that was 2.5 wonderful years ago. I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. I believe in soul mates and I believe that we was put in each others lives for a reason. Monte is a manic depressive person and I'm usally a very upbeat person so we balance each other out well. We both love to ride motorcylcle's I don't have my license yet but thinking about it. I must say I love hanging on to him as we ride for hours and just let the weeks headaches just disappear into the air. As for getting married we had both said we don't need that piece of paper, Or so we thought. I was very close with my ex-in-laws I cooked and cleaned daily for my ex-father-n-law and his common law wife both of them was in bad health and my ex-father-in- law was there for me when no one else was. any ways I get side tracked easily. My ex-father-in-law passed away a year ago in March. I got a call on March 22 2011 that my-ex-father-in-law had fallen out of bed and was unresponsive when I got the the local hospital they was trying to get him ready to lifeflight to columbus. I pulled my children out of school and Monte ask if I wanted him to take off work to go with, I said no boy did I regret that. Monte made sure the kids and I had plenty of money for gas and food. He know it was going to be a long day. anyway there I go again. When the family made it to Columbus we all was in the waiting room for hours and the Dr.'s called us to a very small room to tell us that my ex-father-in-law had suffered a massice stroke and they didn't think he would make it and they was admitting him. As the night progessed he got worse anyway my ex-father-in-laws common law wife and his ex-wife was there along with the family and seen we didn't realize that is common law wife had right his ex-wife and his 2 sons made all the decisions and his ex-wife made the decision to finally pull the plug which should have been done hours before the only reason he had made it to as long as he did was the pacemaker. I got home around 4am and Monte was waiting up on me. He held me as I cried over my ex-father-in-law he held my hand as we made funeral arragements and he took the day off work for the funeral and he sat there and let me cry over my ex-father-in-law . I told Monte after that week was over we do need that peice of paper that I did want to get married that I will not be the one sitting on the side lines watching his ex-wife make decisions and that I by no way shape or form want my ex making those kind of decisions for me. So he said ok then on April 1 2011 we decided to play a trick on my best friend and told her we had sat a date to get married. We got home and was talking and he said I think we shoudl get married on Sept. 13 2013. Will his mom didn't like that Idea and helped the kids talk us into changing the date the fact that we had a bad friday the 13th is really why we gave into them so we decided that we would get married on the last Saturday of Sept. 2012 and when we looked at the calendar and seen the date I realized then that it was my niece's 13th birthday. So the 13th is in there still. I was looking at something the other day and I came to realize that I was born on my aunt's 13th birthday and now I'm getting married on my Niece's 13th birthday.