Discussions by BunBuns

What's your total per person cost (or estimated per person cost for brides like me just starting out planning)? Ours is looking like $60 at the very minimum, I'm just curious about how this...

What % of your combined annual income are you guys spending on your wedding?

All of our invited friends are mutual friends, but he will have more because of his family size. How is/was it for you guys?

I'm curious about what you ladies think about no bar options at all, not even cash bar. Do guests need to be warned?

I read somewhere that you should write "magnet enclosed" on a std magnet mail/envelope in case guests lay the mail down on a computer disk or something. Did anyone do this?

We are debating if we should pay additional for linens. We are having a casual feel wedding, but I'm unsure if not having linens is taking this too far. Thoughts? Any suggestions on cheaper...

We are talking to an inexperienced wedding photographer who has done only a few weddings (mostly does other photography). We only want ceremony pictures and a few pictures done after the ceremony. She...

Married (or very soon to be) ladies: What percentage of your guests RSVPed "no"? Just nosy

I hate the "M____" thing on the RSVP cards, but I don't want to just put a line ("____") because I want guests to know to write their name on the line! Any suggestions on alternatives to this that...

Hey everyone! I need fast advice on invite wording! We are most likely serving appetizers and sandwhiches at our wedding (1pm ceremony, 1:30pm reception). Is this food OK for the wedding time? And how...

What should we think about before meeting with an officiant? What usually happens?

What are your thoughts? Do you think it's rude to not give a BM a 1 (she is not currently dating anyone in particular-- just dating around)?

Anyone have any officiant recommendations? I've looked online and used WW, but I haven't found anything help. Help would be greatly appreciated!

What do you think? FMIL and FBIL are against FH and I being together.

I am sick of eating granola bars and yogurt for lunch at work! What do you all eat for lunches?

We can't decide which to do for STD-- magnet or card? We don't want to do both because we are debating between two options that look exactly the same.

We want to suggest for our guests to donate to the American Cancer Society instead of buying gifts (if they want to do anything). Is thee any way we can set up some kind of account to see how much...

FH and I don't know what to do for our first dance song! Can anyone tell me theirs or offer suggestions? It would be appreciated!

Do you find it awkward when friends who you aren't planning to invite ask you details about the wedding? We are having a small wedding and mostly inviting family and just a handful of friends. I...

We are getting married May 2013 and don't have an officiant yet! Is this okay -- will we have time to find one? And how can you usually find one? I'm clueless on this topic so any suggestions or...