Ashley

 I had known a few of my FH's fraternity brothers, so I spent a lot of my time there with my friends. One day, this handsome guy walked by. I immediately recognized him from my high school, though, since I never knew him, I didn't know his name. We had 2500 kids at my school, plus he was two grades older. I asked him if he'd gone to my high school, to which he said he had, but he seemed entirely disinterested in me. What I didn't know, was that my FH was merely answering the question, not assuming I was flirting, thus not flirting in return. Myself, on the other hand, was intrigued by his apathy. A week or so later, the first football game was around the corner. Everyone was lining up dates for the game, and I already had one with a guy from another fraternity. Then, at one of my FH's fraternity's weekly Thursday night parties, I found myself talking to the same guy from before--my FH! We had such a good time talking, and he jokingly asked me to be his football game date, though he'd already admitted to having another date (They were going as just friends, and this girl actually had a boyfriend at another school). At the end of the night, he was a gentlemen and offered to walk me back to my dorm. He thought he was being stealthy when he reached out and took my hand. I couldn't wait to try to see my FH at the game. Before the game, I saw my FH with his other date. While I'm not a jealous person, it certainly made me very happy when he kept joking with me that I could also be his date. By the end of the game, we had both ditched our dates to be together (terrible, we know!). We ended up hanging out the entire afternoon and night--for over 14 hours! My FH walked me back to my dorm, and even gave me a kiss goodnight. My FH waited a bit to call, as he later admitted to being nervous and still not believing I liked him. He took a chance and texted me. After talking a while, we decided to meet up. We once again talked for hours, and my FH finally realized I definitely liked him. We decided to go out on a date the next day. My FH picked me up right on time, and we had the best evening together. Four years later, we were engaged :)