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My fiance and I live in Maine. We both had previous marriages. He is 38, I am 30. We're both simple people and love our alone time.
- Devoted
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Happily married 🎉
June 30, 2019
Discussions
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What would be a good way to honor deceased parents (three out of four) without being mushy or obvious about? I was never close to my dad and he had issues with his parents as well, but they did give...
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Ok. So FH has a daughter with his ex-wife. The daughter is 8, will be 9 when we tie the knot. He has asked his wife for me if their daughter could be my flower girl. I'm not close to his daughter, but...
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OMG! My countdown is officially under the one year mark. I have a lot done already (venue is all inclusive, menu planned, attire picked, etc.) but I know the time will really start flying now. Any...
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I'm so torn right now. I bought both of these to go with my wedding dress and now I can't decide. The satin Touch Ups might make me taller than my FH. Haven't measured yet since he's not home. But the...
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I know weddings are a time when everyone dresses up and slaps on their favorite perfume and/or cologne. Well, there's my problem. My mother is allergic to that stuff. Is it ok to have 'signature'...
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My ceremony and reception are at the same venue but are seperate spaces. It will not take long to 'flip' the space for the reception. Might need to move chairs inside. Is it ok to skip the cocktail...
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My FH and I live together and don't need the traditional household goods. What are some alternatives or should I even bother setting up a registry at all? Opinions?
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Any ideas? I live in Maine. My shoot will be in the winter. My wedding will be in the summer. What can I do for them that isn't going to seem out of season?
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Save the dates. Are they really necessary? They just seem outdated to me from a time when it could take weeks or months to travel to a wedding.
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I have put in fine print at the bottom of my RSVP card to use the back to make song requests. Is it tacky or brilliant to 'leak' it by word of mouth or Facebook that the playlist will be set by what...