Ronald&Kanedric's

His story! It was during a deployment to Iraq my fellow Soldiers and I decided to try the myspace website to have some fun creating pages. After creating a page for myself I went looking for interesting people to meet; it was through that search I found a set of eyes and a figure that I just could not take my eyes off, met her words before I ever met her. Before the sound of her voice or even the slightest feel of her touch it was her eyes and her words that grabbed me. I stared at her picture and decided I have to get to know her. I wrote her an e-mail and after much distress she finally answered we wrote back and forward getting to know who the other was the more we wrote the more I desired to hear her voice and put a sound to the smile needless to say it was the one sound I that fit me crazy, sexy, cool it fit her perfectly. I knew but never said it out loud I was falling for her.......then we fell out of contact but God has a special way of keeping together what he put together as you can see here we are almost four years later from a picture to the alter it is a dream come true. Her story! After reading my messages on myspace, he left me his email address because I never responded to any of his messages, so I wrote his email address down and kind of forgot about it. I can't really recall how much later but upon going through my papers I ran across the email address and was curious to know who it was. So I email a brief introduction of myself and he responded back, we begin to email back in forward until the day he ask, " so when are you going to approve my friend request", at first I was confuse, until I went to myspace and look under my friend request, low and behold he was just sitting there waiting for approval. I granted him permission to invade my space didn't know that he would end up invading my heart. Of course you know it didn't go that easy, we were up to four, to five emails a week. Until that day came and our emails became far in between and then none. Four months had gone by and nothing not a call not an email nothing, it took me back to my previous question that I had ask him, How do long distance relationships work? His response was,"Long distance relationships work one way and one way only after you have gotten to know one another and you have become friends and you have built trust in each other, not just one sided, then you can overcome distance. It will take a lot of visits during off time and phone calls but I have seen it work but the two involve have to be willing to go through with it because you will get lonely and you will get discourage that why the friendship has to be there it has to be more than just a love because love comes and goes anyone married for a long period of time knows that but it's the way and the reason they fell in love that keeps them together". (God had a plan people, and Ronald had a destiny). January came and one faithful night my phone rang, Hello, how are you doing? Hey! you where have you been, you see to us no time was lost, and our relationship went to another level.( Now remember we still have never met face to face) but there was a bond that was built and it became stronger than ever. Ronald Finally came to Chicago to visit his family and we finally met face to face and to us it was not a strange or uncomfortable meeting, he was wonderful and everything that I thought he would be and more, and he said to me that very day " I need you to stick around" of course I played hard to get by asking why what do you mean " he tried to ask again, and I responded by saying I need a direct question and with that said, he said "I need you to be mines". After a year of emailing, and phone conversation all I could say was, "its about time" and "yes I am yours". There is purpose in everything and emailing him unknowingly was no accident, it was divine.