Discussions by Afterallthistime...Always

We are doing minimal flowers for our wedding. Just my bouquet, greenery for the tables, and small greenery bouquets for the bridesmaids. I met with our wholesale florist yesterday to get a price quote...

Just under 10 days left till the big day (next Saturday). Holy moly there are so many last minute things. I’ve been engaged for two years now, planning for about 21 months. I did everything so early,...

I just commented on a post and I mentioned a funny wedding dream I had last night. I keep having dreams that the DJ either doesn't show up or plays the completely wrong music. I don't know why my...

Holy moly y’all weren’t kidding when you said the last few months fly by! Our RSVPs were due Saturday and we followed up with everyone yesterday. Sent final numbers to the coordinator this morning....

Going to my hair trial in about a half hour and I am so excited! I think this is the most excited I’ve been about any of the wedding stuff. My dress fittings are fun too, but idk, I think this is just...

So! Today we went ring shopping for FH’s band. We went to the jeweler where we got my ring and he tried on several. I kept asking what he liked and he was being wishy-washy. Finally he said it’s hard...

I always see recommendations on these forums to wear heavier makeup for the wedding so you don’t look washed out in photos. I never wear makeup, and when I do it’s just mascara. I plan to wear a...

Happy Tuesday Y'all! My first fitting is this Saturday and I am so excited. I bought my dress off the rack in May, so it has been sitting in my closet since then. I haven't looked at it (didn't want...

Good Morning! The problem: So, my dress is strapless and I'm worried about tan lines. I know I can wear a strapless bikini top at the beach, but I am also a runner so I always have a y-shaped sports...

For our receptions, we are having "duo" plates presented to everyone. So everyone gets both the chicken and beef option with two sides. We also have vegetarian/vegan options, and can do substitutions...

Happy Friday Everyone! Wanted y’all’s advice on where to get my wedding shoes. I’ve got my dress/jewelry already, but I’m struggling to find shoes I like. I cannot balance in heels. FH always laughs...

Just wanted to share a few recent experiences I've had in hopes of helping other brides/grooms. First story: We have hired a DOC to help with the month leading up to the wedding. One thing FH and I...

Just a heads up that Vistaprint is having their semi-annual sale. The code (which is shown on the front page of their website) is SaveBig. Up to 50% off of everything! Just ordered my invites, RSVP...

If you’re like me, you’re planning on taking advantage of Black Friday/Cyber Monday to stock up on wedding decor/bridesmaid gifts/etc. for huge savings! Just a reminder for everyone out there. Some...

Did anyone get the groom/groomsmen suits from somewhere other than Men’s Warehouse? FH has rented from them when he was a groomsmen several times and doesn’t really like their quality. If you or your...

So, since we decided what songs we’re using for everything for the wedding, I can’t stop listening to them. Every time I hear what will be the song I walk down the aisle to, or our first dance, or the...

Just have to share. The other day, I was working on making sure our guest list is finalized since I plan to start getting addresses together for save the dates in the next month. I called FH to ask...

We love our venue, it’s gorgeous as is and needs very little decor. One thing FH brought up recently, is that he’s interested in getting some string lights draped from the ceiling trussing, and some...

I know I’m still a year away, but one of my bridesmaids has mentioned more than once that she plans to throw me a bridal shower. The thing is, I really don’t want one. FH and I aren’t registering, we...