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Vows to Cherish is a female-owned wedding officiant service based out of Frankford, Delaware. Mary Barneby is an ordained officiant available for weddings and renewal ceremonies throughout Delaware and nearby states, accessible by car. Mary's dream was to become an ordained officiant because she believes there is nothing more joyful to witness than two people in love coming together to make or renew a lifetime commitment to each other. Mahatma Gandhi once said, "There is nothing more powerful and yet more gentle than the love we can have for one another."

Services Offered

Mary's role at Vows to Cherish is to develop vows that capture the essence of a couple's love and what that love means to them. She works with each couple to create a ceremony that allows them to share and memorialize that in the presence of their loved ones. Mary is honored to work with couples of all faiths, genders, and spiritual beliefs and will create ceremonies tailored to traditional, interfaith, heterosexual, and same-gender.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$50

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$75

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Hindu
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
ME
MD
MA
NH
NJ
NY
PA
RI
SC
VT
VA

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Vows to Cherish

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Reviewers highly recommend the officiant for her professionalism, warmth, and clear communication. She personalized ceremonies, helped write vows, organized rehearsals, handled the marriage license, and accommodated guest needs. Couples said she made planning easier and the ceremony meaningful.

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Reviewers highly recommend the officiant for her professionalism, warmth, and clear communication. She personalized ceremonies, helped write vows, organized rehearsals, handled the marriage license, and accommodated guest needs. Couples said she made planning easier and the ceremony meaningful.

Antonia
Antonia Sent on 08/07/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Beach Vow Renewal

My husband and I travelled to Delaware with our twins and dog for a family vacation. We were also incorporating a small vow renewal celebration for our 10 year wedding anniversary and wanted to utilize the beach, as well as Mary’s wonderful services 😊. Planning the event with Mary was so easy and so well thought out. We loved how she incorporated our history together into the ceremony! She even included a sand unity ceremony so our twins could be involved and we all poured sand together to represent our family. Mary is such a sweet soul and I am so honored to have met her and had the pleasure of having her officiate our renewal. She is so accommodating and such a delight to work with! Please utilize her services if you need to plan a wedding or renewal!
Taylor
Taylor Sent on 11/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Mary is amazing!

Choosing Mary to be our wedding officiant was one of the best choices we made! From start to finish Mary was there, getting to know us and how we wanted our ceremony to go. She kept in communication with us throughout the planning process which was so helpful! We would recommend Mary to any soon to be newlyweds!
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Victoria Sent on 10/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Officiant

Mary was amazing and thorough she really captured our story. She was also very reasonable on budget. She also was very accommodating to my fiance now husband's mobility restraints. Would 1000% recommend her.
Drew
Drew Sent on 08/13/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Brew’s (Brent and Drew) Beach Ceremony

I can’t say enough about how amazing Mary was to work with from Vows to Cherish. We went into our ceremony having a general idea of what we wanted and Mary helped guide us to make it so special and meaningful to us. Mary was very flexible throughout the process, and made time for whatever we needed. Mary is professional and punctual that our wedding day was a breeze because everything was planned out so well. We sit back after a couple weeks and reflect on how the ceremony was everything we wanted and more. I highly recommend Mary for any wedding occasion.
Jeannette
Jeannette Sent on 05/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Experience

Mary is very professional, sweet, genuine, and makes the overall experience almost easy. Would highly recommend to anyone in the area getting married.
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Erin Sent on 02/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Mary is the absolute SWEETEST!!

Mary went ABOVE AND BEYOND to make our wedding special! She took the time to get to know us as a couple, which ultimately made for the most special wedding ceremony I could've ever imagined! We weren't sure what to say in our vows and how to plan out our ceremony. Mary wrote our vows for us and made it personal. She had our ceremony planned weeks before our wedding and we were able to proof read and adjust things. When Mary came out for the rehearsal she brought our son a gift to make him feel special. She is the sweetest person, and this was by far the smoothest part of wedding planning. Thank you again Mary!
Noah
Noah Sent on 12/30/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Mary Barneby is a WONDERFUL Officiant

I have to say that our experience working with Mary Barneby as our Officiant was very pleasant from start to finish. Mary was very professional from the start and we had a casual Zoom meeting to briefly introduce ourselves and review what type of people/ what type of wedding we were looking to have. We did have several follow up Zoom calls to review through stages, and Mary sent a Ceremony draft to us with all of the steps and aspects included. My partner and I did make some revisions and then Mary adjusted right away! She was also very organized with our Rehearsal as we had quite a large party, and she had print outs for all of the party members with necessary information and organized us all in a very fast fashion. Which leads to the Ceremony itself and Mary was perfect! She had the ceremony script matching with our edits, she was very approachable, had great things that she added to the Ceremony script that aligned with what we wanted, and also handled the marriage license part with the State after the wedding itself. I cannot recommend enough Mary Barneby as a Wedding officiant via Vows to Cherish.
Alexis
Alexis Sent on 12/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful words for a beautiful night.

Beautiful words for a beautiful night. Our officiant was amazing, she was so sweet and supportive. Was able to assist us as a couple and very easy to get a hold of. Our vows were beautiful and tear jerking. Something we will always cherish
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Bailee Sent on 10/27/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Mary was wonderful! Perfect ceremony!

Wedding planning can be really stressful, but Mary made everything so much easier and ended up providing us with the most perfect ceremony! She was professional, kind, and extremely thoughtful! We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant!
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Heather Sent on 07/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Gave us an amazing experience!

Mary was absolutely wonderful and helpful thru every step of the the way! She helped find out what was need from ocean city to be able to do our vowel renewal on the beach and emailed me what I needed to fill out. She was willing to be flexible with time and location to help meet my photographers needs. Mary was very good with seeing what we wanted in our ceremony and personalizing it to us and our style. She gave us a draft of the ceremony quickly and was willing to hear our thoughts and revision ideas! She made our renewal special! And even brought is flowers from her garden for myself and my daughter since we were coming from pa, which was very thoughtful and a special touch that added to our pictures!
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