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Anthony
Anthony
Officiant

Woman-owned

19 years in business

We speak English and Spanish

Small team (2-10 members)

The Wedding Judge has three wedding officiants - Anthony, Emily, and Henry, serving Oregon, Washington, and the Pacific Northwest region.

Anthony is a licensed attorney who started officiating weddings in Oregon as a Judge (hence The Wedding Judge). Because he enjoys it so much and seems to have a knack for it, he has continued officiating all over Oregon and Washington even after leaving the bench.

The Wedding Judge has expanded in the 15 years since Anthony officiated his first wedding and has added two additional officiants—Emily and Henry. Emily is amazing with people. To know her is really to love her. She will definitely leave an impression on you and your guests. Families are always trying to feed her after her ceremonies. Henry is kind, funny, compassionate, and professional. Though Anthony has officiated his fair share, Henry is The Wedding Judge's resident expert on non-binary and LGBTQ+ ceremonies.

The three of them have officiated thousands of weddings in the Pacific Northwest in all different types of venues - from backyards to livingrooms to parks to prisons, jails, and courthouses to cable cars to churches to backstage during the intermission at the Portland Ballet's performance of the Nutcracker to fancy hotels and beautiful gardens to beaches, waterfalls, and mountain vistas off the beaten path. Anthony is only the second person to have officiated a wedding in the Oregon State Capitol Building, and the only person to do so in modern times.

Ceremonies are completely customizable because Anthony, Emily, and Henry want you to have the wedding you want. They are very flexible and can accommodate short-notice weddings - even same-day ceremonies. They can even accommodate couples who don't have witnesses.

For couples who want a "courthouse"-type wedding without the courthouse setting, Anthony, Emily, and Henry offer their services at a significant discount. Anthony can officiate ceremonies in both English and Spanish. Se Habla Espanol.

Most couples don't know this, but the marriage license contains all of the information necessary for someone to steal a couple's identity, and the officiant has access to the license. Anthony has drafted legislation and testified before the Oregon Legislature to help protect this information, and as a former judge, and licensed attorney, Anthony is legally and ethically obligated to keep your information safe. Emily and Henry abide by the same standards.

What You'll Love About The Wedding Judge

Couples have highlighted the officiants' ability to create a comfortable environment for their ceremonies by making the process easy and enjoyable. Their flexibility and ability to create the ceremony of your dreams, even on short notice. Check out the excellent reviews left by couples about The Wedding Judge, for an insight into how they can add to the magic of your special day.

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What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Taoist
Unitarian
Other

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

OR
WA

What languages do you speak?

English
Spanish

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Reviews of The Wedding Judge

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Reviewers had exceptional experiences with The Wedding Judge, praising both Anthony and Emily for their professionalism, flexibility, and helpfulness in customizing ceremonies. Clients appreciated the prompt communication, affordable pricing, and stress-free process. The officiants were described as friendly, knowledgeable, and accommodating, providing guidance and support throughout the planning process and offering suggestions for personalizing ceremonies. Overall, The Wedding Judge received high recommendations for their services, making ceremonies smooth and special.

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Reviewers had exceptional experiences with The Wedding Judge, praising both Anthony and Emily for their professionalism, flexibility, and helpfulness in customizing ceremonies. Clients appreciated the prompt communication, affordable pricing, and stress-free process. The officiants were described as friendly, knowledgeable, and accommodating, providing guidance and support throughout the planning process and offering suggestions for personalizing ceremonies. Overall, The Wedding Judge received high recommendations for their services, making ceremonies smooth and special.

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Jennifer Sent on 01/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Could not have hoped for better!

We were lucky enough to be referred to Anthony. It was a pleasant experience from start to finish. The communication was prompt and very informative. His advice and suggestions were very helpful. They were flexible with scheduling. We wanted a pretty informal marriage signing, and ended up choosing a cafe that was meaningful to us. Anthony and Emily met us there before the scheduled time, and made the process so easy and enjoyable. We loved sitting and talking with them. And when we have a bigger, more public ceremony, we 100% plan to hire them again.
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Jodi Sent on 12/31/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Very professional

Rate fit our budget and they were very professional in helping us customize our ceremony!
Grace
Grace Sent on 12/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Anthony is the best!

Wow, Anthony was incredible during our event in Newberg, Oregon at Parrett Mountain Cellars. I would HIGHLY RECOMMEND Anthony for your upcoming event and service. Trust me. It was such a beautiful experience and his leading our ceremony made this nearly stress free! Just kidding, but golly having him as our officiant really made this process simple, clear and our guests loved the service. Thank you Anthony for everything you did to make our event such a success. Thank you for making our day special!!
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Tori Sent on 11/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Great service

We were so happy with our ceremony. Everything went so smoothly and we received many compliments about the ceremony. 10/10 would recommend to anyone.
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Kyle Sent on 10/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Lovely Ceremony

Our ceremony was beautiful and we are so happy we went with The Wedding Judge! The process of choosing the type of ceremony we wanted was fun and they were very responsive. They send a "guide" to help you through the process which made everything more manageable and stress free.
Jennifer
Jennifer Sent on 10/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Stop looking! Choose The Wedding Judge!

I cannot say enough great things about him!
Anthony was absolutely the Real Deal!!!!!
He came right to our hotel and married us on the beach! We provided the simple things we wanted to include in our ceremony and allowed him to fill in the "blanks" and it was perfect. From start to final signature the response time was fantastic. The cost was very affordable. He is professional, courteous, and super flexible, making sure that your day is the way that you want it to be.
I would definitely recommend The Wedding Judge!
Thanks again Anthony!
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Jennifer Sent on 05/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Emily was amazing!

Emily was an absolute pleasure to work with. She was easy going, quick to respond to our questions, and very detail oriented. She was also super flexible when we had to change the ceremony time at the last minute. She has a positive vibe and sunny disposition which added even more joy to our special day. We couldn't have asked for a better officiant. Thank you Emily!
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Laura Sent on 03/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Park Elopement

We had such a good experience with Henry as our officiant. My partner and I wanted it to be just us at a local park with no witnesses. We planned on asking whatever people were in the park and at first we didn't see anyone, but Henry was great at going with the flow and finding us so volunteers. We happened to find two retirement age people out walking their dogs who were willing to be our witnesses. They turned out to be neighbors and had a good time chit chatting and their dogs were happy to see each other. It really couldn't have been more perfect with happenstance and it all felt very Portland. It was just as low key as we wanted, just a few sentences of I do, and I do, and the whole process was well explained with easy communication for a great price. We had considered getting married at the courthouse since we wanted practically no ceremony, but this was a much much nicer memory to have for us, and I'm so glad we found this business. The park even had a little hike above it that we did after the wedding and was a great suggestion for location. 10/10 would recommend them to anyone!
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Sheridan Sent on 01/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Anthony is a great officiant!

We had the pleasure of working with Anthony Behrens as our officiant last fall. He was friendly, responsive, timely, and knowledgeable. Highly recommend his services!
Ashley
Ashley Sent on 11/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Great Officiant

Anthony was an incredible officiant for our October wedding. His steps were easy to follow and responded very quickly to each email. He was warm and welcoming and made my husband and I feel at ease. I would highly recommend him for anyone’s wedding!
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Emily
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Officiant
Henry
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Professional Network & Endorsements

Cello by Triana Cello by Triana Wedding Musicians

The Wedding Judge is wonderful! Three cheers for Oregon Weddings.. :)

K.Lindmeier Photography K.Lindmeier Photography Wedding Photographers

Anthony was kind and he seemed like he had a gentle soul. Exactly whom a bride and groom need to perform their wedding.

Aimee J'Adore Aimee J'Adore Wedding Hair & Makeup

Anthony was the officiant for our wedding ceremony, and we are both so happy to have had him! He listened carefully to what we wanted and gave us so many beautiful options and ways to design our ceremony. In the end, we decided a short and simple ceremony was "us" and he added enough fluidity to the ceremony to make it perfectly beautiful. I will be highly recommending him to all my brides as the best officiant in Oregon.

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