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The Wedding Judge has three wedding officiants - Anthony, Emily, and Henry, serving Oregon, Washington, and the Pacific Northwest region.

Anthony is a licensed attorney who started officiating weddings in Oregon as a Judge (hence The Wedding Judge). Because he enjoys it so much and seems to have a knack for it, he has continued officiating all over Oregon and Washington even after leaving the bench.

The Wedding Judge has expanded in the 15 years since Anthony officiated his first wedding and has added two additional officiants—Emily and Henry. Emily is amazing with people. To know her is really to love her. She will definitely leave an impression on you and your guests. Families are always trying to feed her after her ceremonies. Henry is kind, funny, compassionate, and professional. Though Anthony has officiated his fair share, Henry is The Wedding Judge's resident expert on non-binary and LGBTQ+ ceremonies.

The three of them have officiated thousands of weddings in the Pacific Northwest in all different types of venues - from backyards to livingrooms to parks to prisons, jails, and courthouses to cable cars to churches to backstage during the intermission at the Portland Ballet's performance of the Nutcracker to fancy hotels and beautiful gardens to beaches, waterfalls, and mountain vistas off the beaten path. Anthony is only the second person to have officiated a wedding in the Oregon State Capitol Building, and the only person to do so in modern times.

Ceremonies are completely customizable because Anthony, Emily, and Henry want you to have the wedding you want. They are very flexible and can accommodate short-notice weddings - even same-day ceremonies. They can even accommodate couples who don't have witnesses.

For couples who want a "courthouse"-type wedding without the courthouse setting, Anthony, Emily, and Henry offer their services at a significant discount. Anthony can officiate ceremonies in both English and Spanish. Se Habla Espanol.

Most couples don't know this, but the marriage license contains all of the information necessary for someone to steal a couple's identity, and the officiant has access to the license. Anthony has drafted legislation and testified before the Oregon Legislature to help protect this information, and as a former judge, and licensed attorney, Anthony is legally and ethically obligated to keep your information safe. Emily and Henry abide by the same standards.

What You'll Love About The Wedding Judge

Couples have highlighted the officiants' ability to create a comfortable environment for their ceremonies by making the process easy and enjoyable. Their flexibility and ability to create the ceremony of your dreams, even on short notice. Check out the excellent reviews left by couples about The Wedding Judge, for an insight into how they can add to the magic of your special day.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$245

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

OR
WA

What languages do you speak?

English
Spanish
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Reviews of The Wedding Judge

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4.9 out of 5 rating
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
4.9 out of 5 rating
402 reviews
99% recommend it
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Multiple reviewers highly recommend Anthony Behrens as an officiant for weddings, praising his professionalism, responsiveness, flexibility, and ability to create a comforting and seamless ceremony experience. Reviewers appreciate the thorough guidance, customization options, and clear communication provided by Anthony, mentioning his valuable tips, affordable pricing, and smooth process from planning to completion. They highlight his helpfulness in accommodating various requests, personalized touches, and emphasizing the importance of individual preferences in crafting a meaningful ceremony. Additionally, reviewers commend Anthony for his understanding, kindness, and commitment to ensuring a stress-free and enjoyable wedding experience.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

Multiple reviewers highly recommend Anthony Behrens as an officiant for weddings, praising his professionalism, responsiveness, flexibility, and ability to create a comforting and seamless ceremony experience. Reviewers appreciate the thorough guidance, customization options, and clear communication provided by Anthony, mentioning his valuable tips, affordable pricing, and smooth process from planning to completion. They highlight his helpfulness in accommodating various requests, personalized touches, and emphasizing the importance of individual preferences in crafting a meaningful ceremony. Additionally, reviewers commend Anthony for his understanding, kindness, and commitment to ensuring a stress-free and enjoyable wedding experience.

Tamra
Tamra Sent on 06/16/2014
5 out of 5 rating
Anthony was more than willing to let us take the lead and make up our own ceremony script. He was always there when called upon and always willing to listen to suggestions without discrimination. He never told us we could not do something he simply said "if that's what you prefer". My husband and I were very pleased with his mannerisms and he was up beat and friendly during the entire process. He also photographed well which was a big thing for us. We needed some one who was photogenic and he certainly fit that bill. Thanks Anthony for everything, you made our day a little extra special. Sincerely, The Hagerman Family
Norma
Norma F. Sent on 08/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Officiant

Anthony was very helpful through the entire process. We weren’t entirely sure how to approach the process but he made it so easy. He gave us a wedding ceremony checklist to assist with what we needed. He gave us good location recommendations and was extremely flexible when we decided to change our location. Henry, the officiant, was also very nice and amazing. He gave us ideas on where we could do the ceremony at Trillium Lake. The entire experience was a 10/10 thanks to both of them and I 100% recommend them for your wedding/elopement.
Ashley
Ashley H. Sent on 11/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Great Officiant

Anthony was an incredible officiant for our October wedding. His steps were easy to follow and responded very quickly to each email. He was warm and welcoming and made my husband and I feel at ease. I would highly recommend him for anyone’s wedding!
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Professional Network & Endorsements

4 Endorsements
Cello by Triana Cello by Triana Wedding Musicians

The Wedding Judge is wonderful! Three cheers for Oregon Weddings.. :)

K.Lindmeier Photography K.Lindmeier Photography Wedding Photographers

Anthony was kind and he seemed like he had a gentle soul. Exactly whom a bride and groom need to perform their wedding.

Aimee J'Adore Aimee J'Adore Wedding Hair & Makeup

Anthony was the officiant for our wedding ceremony, and we are both so happy to have had him! He listened carefully to what we wanted and gave us so many beautiful options and ways to design our ceremony. In the end, we decided a short and simple ceremony was "us" and he added enough fluidity to the ceremony to make it perfectly beautiful. I will be highly recommending him to all my brides as the best officiant in Oregon.

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