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Price range: $3,000 - $9,200 Price range: $3,000 - $8,200
Reception
$3,000 starting price
Bar service
$20 per person
Reception
$3,000 starting price
Bar service
$20 per person

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Wedding Venue Located in Apex/Cary!

The Upchurch is a wedding venue situated in Cary, NC. This historic six-acre estate dates back to 1905 and is home to spacious grounds that include scenic lawns, magnificent magnolias, and a picturesque pond. The Main House and Conservatory overlook the waterfront and gardens and provide an idyllic setting for refined and romantic celebrations. Classic elegance blends with modern elements, and each event space has been reimagined as the perfect backdrop for weddings and special events.

Begin your wedding journey at The Upchurch in the beautifully appointed dressing suites inside The Main House, which exudes homely comfort with an upscale twist. Then, make your way to The Magnolia Lawn for your outdoor ceremony, where guests will await your arrival at the altar, surrounded by stunning magnolia trees. The ceremony site features a 2,000-square-foot circular lawn surrounded by tall trees, greenery, and views of the Main House. Afterward, while you roam the estate and pose by the pond for photographs, guests can enjoy cocktail hour on The Magnolia Lawn and The Main House and Terrace. Evening receptions take place in The Conservatory, an airy, spacious ballroom that seats up to 225 guests. Here, minimalist decor and pristine white paintwork combine with touches of traditional charm. Statement light fixtures shape the ceiling while large windows on three sides offer scenic vistas of the grounds. The dedicated staff supplies a locally custom-made bar, cocktail tables, round and banquet tables, 200 Bentwood beech chairs, and more. This is a wheelchair-accessible venue with luxurious restrooms and ample parking onsite.

The event team at The Upchurch collaborates exclusively with premium caterers, Rocky Top Catering. For over 20 years, the talented culinary team has designed customized menus for private parties and wedding events. You can connect with the team to share your vision and cuisine requests. A member of the in-house team will recommend trusted suppliers and wedding planners to facilitate the planning process. A venue host will oversee the smooth running of events on your wedding day, ensuring that guests feel welcome from start to finish. The wedding package includes the use of both indoor and outdoor event spaces, access to a wedding rehearsal, the provision of reception and ceremony furnishings, and more. You can connect with Cara Powell, owner and operator, and her esteemed team to begin bringing your vision to life!

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

3,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

3,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

No

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Clean Up
Parking
Set Up
Tables

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$20

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
House Beer
House Wine

Describe your venue:

Garden
Historic Building

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Catering Services
Clean Up
Get Ready Rooms
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations

What event items are available?

Chairs
Furniture
Lighting
Tables

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

April
May
June
September
October
November
December

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
July
August
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Reviews of The Upchurch

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
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16 Reviews
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The Upchurch is a highly recommended wedding venue with a beautiful historic house and modern conservatory. Both Cara and Hannah, the venue's owners, are praised for their dedication, helpfulness, and attention to detail. The venue offers a variety of spaces for different events and has a stunning outdoor area with lawns, gardens, and a pond. Guests appreciate the thoughtfully decorated bridal and groom's suites, as well as the overall design and ambiance of the venue. The Upchurch team is commended for their communication, organization, and ability to make the wedding day seamless and enjoyable for the couple and their guests.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

The Upchurch is a highly recommended wedding venue with a beautiful historic house and modern conservatory. Both Cara and Hannah, the venue's owners, are praised for their dedication, helpfulness, and attention to detail. The venue offers a variety of spaces for different events and has a stunning outdoor area with lawns, gardens, and a pond. Guests appreciate the thoughtfully decorated bridal and groom's suites, as well as the overall design and ambiance of the venue. The Upchurch team is commended for their communication, organization, and ability to make the wedding day seamless and enjoyable for the couple and their guests.

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5.0/5 16 reviews
Google
4.9/5 58 reviews
Lindsay
Lindsay M. Sent on 02/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Wedding Venue!

I had my wedding here on January 20th, 2024 and let me just say, The Upchurch was more than perfect. Cara and Hannah are the absolute sweetest women. My planner was, unfortunately, unable to make it to our wedding day and Hannah took over - everything went seamlessly. I could not have pictured a more perfect day. The house is so beautiful, the grounds are wonderfully well-kept, and the conservatory is the perfect ceremony and reception space. You could not pick a better venue than The Upchurch - they made our day so special!
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Abbie D. Sent on 12/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect people and perfect venue

Wow!!! We got married yesterday at The Upchurch and I couldn’t have asked for a better day! Cara and Hannah are truly amazing and kind people. They are very responsive and fun to work with. I have been to The Upchurch ever since it was under construction and I knew that when Cara’s vision came to life it would be beautiful! We had about 160 people and there was an ample amount of space in the dressing rooms, the lawn, downstairs in the main house and the conservatory! If I could do it all again I would be right back at this venue as it is truly beautiful and accommodating for any party size. Jake and I thank you for such an awesome time and helping us each day to make our wedding day perfect!
Ammu
Ammu Sent on 10/30/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful and exactly what we needed for our multicultural wedding weekend!

I recently had my wedding in Oct 2023 at the Upchurch and could not have been happier that I did! We had a big, multi day, multicultural wedding and it was difficult to find one venue that had everything that we needed (indoor, outdoor space for 130 people and 3 different events).

The venue itself is unique because of the history of modern but vintage vibe it has. Because of the different spaces, we were able to create a different feel for each of our unique events: 1) a hindu ceremony outdoors, 2) a welcome reception outdoors, 3) catholic ceremony indoors, 4) cocktail hour in the house, and 5) reception indoors. The possibilities are endless and I feel like we really maxed out the spaces they had available to us! The bridal suite was spacious and had everything we needed for 1 bride, 8 bridesmaids, and 2 moms - a speaker, stocked fridge, great lighting, outlets, and plenty of space. The guys room was also great (albeit smaller) and had everything they needed.

Aside from the venue itself, the staff is so sweet and incredible - Cara and Hannah are the best part about the venue because they are so helpful, kind, and responsive. We had a lot of back and forth questions via email/phone and they were quick to find an answer for us regardless of what it was. I can't say enough good things about them, their attention to detail, and the overall experience.

One note to other brides, especially those having a multicultural wedding - we weren't able to come into the venue space as early as we wanted prior to our morning ceremony, which ended up costing me extra to move our hair/makeup team over in the middle of their services. It ended up being okay, but would just clarify early if you need to get into the venue earlier than a "standard" wedding day!
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Hello!! Hannah here! It has been such a gratifying experience connecting with couples over the past several years. I love thinking of ways we can make your wedding/event unique... after all, this is YOUR special day and it needs to reflect what YOU care about! Please do not hesitate to reach out! We can't wait to hear from you!

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