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I’m Naomi Rose, wedding officiant and owner of Santa Cruz Officiant. I’m also an ordained minister and certified celebrant with more than 20 years of training and experience in ceremony, ritual and rites of passage theory. I officiate wedding ceremonies and elopements in Santa Cruz County, Big Sur, Carmel and Monterey. Since 2015, I’ve officiated more than 400 wedding ceremonies, from intimate elopements in redwood forests and on coastal cliffs to elaborate celebrations at some of Northern California’s most beautiful venues, including Nestldown, Waterfall Lodge and The Holly Farm.

My work is rooted in the belief that a wedding ceremony can be both deeply meaningful and genuinely enjoyable. I create ceremonies with emotional depth, humor and a strong sense of occasion, without relying on generic scripts, cheesy gimmicks or outdated traditions.

I have particular expertise creating nonreligious and secular ceremonies that resonate with guests no matter their religious affiliation or beliefs. As one bride wrote: “We only heard our guests RAVE about our ceremony. I expected as much from my friends, who especially loved all the quotes from women of color and felt the ceremony was ‘so grounded, magical and intentional, like Sarah and Kevin!’ But I had no idea how much my family and parents’ friends would feel impacted, too. I’m talking about my Catholic, Mormon, evangelical Christian family/family friends alike, who all gushed to us about how beautiful the ceremony was!”

I also officiate modern Jewish wedding ceremonies, interfaith/mixed-faith/cultural-hybrid ceremonies, second marriages and blended-family ceremonies, elopements and micro-weddings, and work with couples across an enormous range of backgrounds, identities, orientations and origin stories.

My process is relational rather than templated. I listen closely, ask thoughtful questions, learn about what matters to you, and shape that information into a ceremony that is cohesive, dynamic and entirely yours. I always find that couples say it best, so here is what one groom had to say: “Naomi's ceremony was at the center of the best day of our lives. She asked all of the right questions to make us reflect on who we each are, who we are together, what our relationship means to us, what marriage means to us, and what type of life we're building together. She took that understanding and created a stunningly beautiful ceremony that helped our guests understand us and our relationship… I would feel confident recommending her to virtually anyone, which is a somewhat amazing thing given how incredibly personal and tailored the ceremony was (and should be).”

And because even beautiful words can fall flat if they aren’t delivered well, I bring as much attention to presence, pacing and performance as I do to the writing itself.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Earth-Based
Jewish
No Denomination
Pagan
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA
CO

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Santa Cruz Officiant

Hannah
Hannah Sent on 12/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Naomi, you are made of pure magic!

We couldn’t have asked for a more wonderful officiant on our special day. From the very first meeting, Naomi was warm, approachable, and made us feel completely at ease. She took the time to get to know us as a couple, incorporating our personal story and values into a heartfelt ceremony that was meaningful and beautiful. The ceremony flowed perfectly, and we received countless compliments from our guests about how touching and personal it was. We truly felt that Naomi went above and beyond to make our wedding day memorable. We are so grateful for her guidance and presence, and we highly recommend her to anyone looking for a kind, professional, and truly special officiant. Thank you, Naomi, for helping make our day unforgettable! You were truly the glue and peace of a busy wedding day.
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Faviola Sent on 11/16/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Ceremony Perfection!

Naomi was the most incredible wedding officiant we could have ever asked for. The level of care and detail she put into preparing for our ceremony was truly unmatched. From our Zoom calls to her guidance and support throughout the process, she made everything seamless. The ceremony itself was absolutely amazing—filled with emotion, laughter, and every element we had envisioned. Our wedding guests couldn’t stop raving about how beautiful and personalized the ceremony was. Many even said it was the best wedding ceremony they had ever attended! Naomi has an incredible ability to capture the personalities of the couple, celebrate their commitment, and deliver a ceremony that is heartfelt, engaging, and perfectly executed. If you’re looking for a wedding officiant who goes above and beyond the status quo to craft a ceremony tailored to you, Naomi is THE one. Don’t hesitate to reach out to her—you’ll be so glad you did. Simply put, she is THE BEST!! Thank you, Naomi, for making our ceremony so memorable and special!! ❤️
Alex
Alex Sent on 10/07/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Pure Magic

We can't thank Naomi enough for the heartwarming, personalized, thoughtful, and touching ceremony that we will remember for the rest of our lives! She officiated our wedding on 8/18/23 at The Sequoia Retreat Center and it was truly perfect.

Our number one priority for our wedding was the ceremony itself. Originally we considered having a friend or family officiate, because we thought it could be nice to have someone we know guide us, but we ultimately realized the value in choosing someone who is experienced in ceremonies.

So, one night as I was (sort of) trying to fall asleep - but really was scrolling through instagram - I happened upon Naomi's account and her website and instantly knew she was the one. I was very moved by her passion for ceremony and the approach she takes to officiating. I immediately told my partner, Luke, about her and we both agreed she would be the perfect person to marry us.

Naomi was the first vendor we reached out to, met with, and hired for our wedding.

Our zoom meetings with her were easeful as she was able to guide us through them. Any communication we had with her leading up to the wedding was wonderful and her response time was quick. She had us each individually fill out a questionnaire with the purpose of us reflecting on our past, preparing us for our future, and so she could get the information she needed to write the custom ceremony. She helped us with writing our vows and gave great feedback. She provided deadlines for us far in advance of the wedding so that nothing was last minute and she supported us throughout the whole process. She was flexible in creating a payment plan that worked for us. And she gave us our written ceremony after the wedding for us to keep and look back at.

The ceremony was beyond special and it our favorite part of the day. Every word was meaningful, it was perfectly tailored to our relationship, and we loved the way our guests were involved. We received so many compliments, many guests saying it was their favorite part of the wedding and the best ceremony they had ever experienced. It had us and our guests buzzing in a love bubble the rest of the day and night. I wish I could relive it over and over again.

If your ceremony is important to you, I highly recommend Naomi
Elizabeth
Elizabeth Sent on 08/16/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Magical Day

We had the pleasure of having Naomi officiate our wedding ceremony this past July, and we couldn't have asked for a more enchanting and unique experience. From the moment we met Naomi, we knew that our wedding ceremony was going to be something truly magical.

During our initial wedding planning discussions, we agreed on the importance of incorporating a custom and non-traditional ceremony, that allowed for ourselves and our guests the opportunity to slow down and honor the sacredness of the rite of marriage. We knew it was essential for us to find an officiant who not only aligned with our personalities, values and world views, but also understood the significance of ceremony and ritual.

Over the 11 months of wedding planning, Naomi took the time to get to know us as a couple, delving into our journey over the past 16 years and understanding the intricate details of our relationship. This was evident throughout our entire ceremony, which was beautifully custom-tailored to reflect our individual story. It was unlike any wedding ceremony we (nor our guests) had ever witnessed – which incorporated a blend of non-traditional elements, including depth psychology themes, nature, metaphor and ritualistic symbolism.

Naomi created an experiential ceremony in which our guests were not mere spectators, but active participants. The participation of our guests allowed us to collectively share in the love and joy of our union while highlighting our loved one’s integral role in our story, making our wedding not just an event to witness, but an experience to be a part of.

Naomi’s fearlessness allows her to step outside the boundaries of convention, which resulted in a wedding that was an authentic reflection of our love. Naomi was influential in helping us create our dream wedding which was an unforgettable and transcendent experience that we are still feeling to this day.

Our deepest gratitude to Naomi for making our wedding ceremony such a meaningful catalyst into our new chapter of life together.
Kaylie
Kaylie Sent on 07/15/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect ceremony

Dear Naomi,

We want to express our deepest gratitude for being the extraordinary force behind our wedding ceremony. Your heartfelt words, genuine presence, and the love you infused into every moment made our special day truly unforgettable. Your ability to create a meaningful and inclusive ceremony that reflected our values and beliefs meant the world to us. We are forever grateful for your guidance, support, and the beautiful memories you helped us create. Thank you for being an integral part of our journey and for making our wedding day a true celebration of love.

With heartfelt appreciation, Kaylie and Kody
Kelsi
Kelsi Sent on 11/27/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Our amazing guide into married life! Beautiful & meaningful ceremony

Naomi truly helped make our wedding the most magical and happy day of our lives. The ceremony was so beautiful and meaningful, speaking to who we are with so much truth.

I was in awe during the whole ceremony at the different phases Naomi walked us through in taking the next big step together in our relationship. I truly felt her guiding us like an old friend, helping us stay present and in the moment as we became husband and wife.

She showed our guests a beautiful ceremony and people from all different religions and backgrounds kept coming up to us and commenting on how beautiful and spiritual it was!

We’re so happy to have found Naomi to be our officiant and can’t imagine our wedding day unfolding like it did without her.
Courtney
Courtney Sent on 11/24/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Incredible!

Naomi was without a doubt one of if not the best vendor we worked with. Before working with her we weren't really focused on the officiant but she made us realize how important the bond between us all was for a successful ceremony. She felt like family immediately and put in so much thoughtful effort towards creating a one of a kind memorable ceremony. Pretty much every guest went out of their way to mention how much they loved her and the words she spoke. We love Naomi and looking forward to keeping in touch.
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Alexa Sent on 11/20/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Wowie wow wow!

Naomi! First off, what an absolutely incredible human. Our guests can’t stop talking about the ceremony that she created for us. Her attention to detail and thoughtful working process brought us a completely unique individually curated ceremony that left everyone buzzing. Not only was the ceremony moving for my wife and myself but every single person in the space left the ceremony changed because of experiencing it.
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Haley Sent on 11/14/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Just wow!!

We highly recommend Naomi if you’re looking for a stellar officiant for your big day! Our ceremony was intimate and so well created. Naomi was involved and attentive during the prewedding process. She really wanted to get to know us as individuals and as a couple in order to create the ceremony. She encouraged us to write our own vows and we are so thankful she did. This helped us to be present with each other during the day. Naomi is wonderfully gifted with the written word!
Lauren
Lauren Sent on 10/29/2021
5 out of 5 rating

A more beautiful and meaningful ceremony than I could’ve imagined.

I don’t think I can fully describe the magic and meaning in my wedding ceremony. It was the perfect right of passage experience for myself and my husband has said the same. Naomi is wonderful to work with and she was intentional, thoughtful and skillful in her ceremony-creation process. My husband and I planned our wedding in four months and we do not live in California. These odds had me worried that I might not have a wedding ceremony that felt authentic or aligned with our spirit and story. Our ceremony exceeded my expectations! I am just so glad that I googled “Santa Cruz officiant” and that Naomi happened to be available on the day of our wedding.

We worked with Naomi on a customized ceremony. We each filled out questionnaires and had meetings with her. This was a very fruitful experience for both of us, as it helped us to ground in where we have been and prepared us for the initiation ahead. I appreciated that Naomi kept us involved in some major pieces of the ceremony where it made the most sense. However, there was also plenty of beautiful surprises in what she wove into the ceremony that was completely and utterly….us. Thank you, Naomi, I will cherish and revisit our ceremony for the rest of my life.
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
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Professional Network & Endorsements

4 Endorsements
De Joy Photography De Joy Photography Wedding Photographers

Naomi is one of a kind! I've never met an officiant who is as passionate as Naomi. We met a bridal show and was blown away by her love and kindness - she really does care for the couples she marries! I would highly recommend Naomi and will recommend her to all my clients.

Duke and Pearl Weddings Duke and Pearl Weddings Wedding Planners

Naomi with Medicine Woman Wisdom Weddings is very warm and wonderful person to talk with. She will create a wedding ceremony especially for you based on what you want and will have many meaningful ideas to make your wedding ceremony truly memorable for you!

Durango Sacred Hearts of the Wild Durango Sacred Hearts of the Wild Wedding Officiants

Rev. Naomi is an amazing ceremonialist that has a flair for Officiating Weddings with decadence and intimacy that reflects the couple. Her style is unique but with great depth. I would recommend her to any couple who desires an intimate ceremony that radiates their love they have for each other! with love, Rev. Tedda

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