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Rev. Wahila is an ordained pastor (Presbyterian Church, USA) and professional officiant performing wedding blessings, elopements, vow renewals, and family ceremonies in Paris, France, and around the world. She is the owner and creator of Ruffled By Grace: Paris Wedding Blessings, specializing in bespoke wedding ceremonies, elopements, and vow renewals. She has curated a team of professionals that will bring creativity, imagination and professionalism to your special day.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$160

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$60

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination
Presbyterian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

NY
PA

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Ruffled By Grace

Natalie
Natalie Sent on 07/22/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Such a special ceremony!

Michelle did a fantastic job with our ceremony in France. Finding an officiant overseas is difficult, but we felt like Michelle was the right choice for us the minute we met her. She did a beautiful job incorporating our love story into the ceremony and it was such a joyful and personal day.
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Cory Sent on 07/07/2022
5 out of 5 rating

One of the highlights of our day

When planning a destination wedding, we didn’t know how would officiate the wedding. Our wedding planner recommend Rev. Wahila and we couldn’t be more thankful. She sent us a questionnaire about our relationship and turned the answers into the most personal, beautiful ceremony. We had multiple guests tell us that it was the best ceremony that they have ever been to and we couldn’t agree more. We went from not knowing how to find an officiant to having the best officiant one could ask for!
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B B Sent on 01/17/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Truly Amazing and Excellent vow renewal to never forget.

We want to recommend Rev. Allison and Rev. Michelle. We knew from the start that we had made a great choice with just the first email we exchanged. The both of them equally made our out of the country vow renewal ceremony planning an amazing, unforgettable one. We couldn't believe how we put together our ceremony in a matter of nothing with their recommendations. We were in touch for 10 months on and off. Their response and willingness to help us was one we were amazed with. Our ceremony was prepared for us based on our questionary. We couldn't be more thankful. It was absolutely beautiful. They also recommend us a group of vendors that we ended up hiring and were wonderful recomendations.
If we were to renew our vows again we will hire them again and again. They were Godsend to us. Thanks to them we have beautiful memories. Don't hesitate to hire them and you will see for yourself that nothing it's impossible with their help. Thanks a million. We are so grateful.

Ceremony was December 29th, 2019
Alyssa
Alyssa Sent on 11/20/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Our guests couldn't stop raving about Michelle

I was totally bewildered by the idea of writing our own vows. Somehow nothing seemed to capture exactly what I wanted to say, or how special that moment should feel. But WOW once we found Michelle - she just blew our every expectation out of the water. She gave us lots of beautifully written vows to choose from, but customized the ceremony with tons of personal details about our relationship and our wedding. She was also so very respectful of both of our faith backgrounds, and that of our guests. She worked with us to find exactly the tone we wanted, and to make sure the little details were just right. We come from two different faith backgrounds, and she took such care with even the little things - did we want her to wear a collar, did we want a scripture reading, or blessing of the rings, what would feel inclusive for all of our guests?

It was beyond perfect. The one thing our guests couldn’t stop talking about all night was how wonderful she was. I’m so, so glad, and so grateful we found Michelle. To top it off - we first reached out to her less than a month before our wedding (when our first plan for an officiant fell through). We feel very lucky she was available, and we’re thrilled she was part of our wedding. It’s so clear that she loves what she does, and we loved having her as part of our day.
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Kelly Sent on 10/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Brilliant

I'm not sure where to even begin. Michelle Wahila of Ruffled by Grace is an incredible little sprite of a woman who loves what she does for couples traveling to Paris from around the world. Michelle's enthusiasm, demeanor, willingness to go the extra mile and dedication to making your day as special and complete as possible is truly unmatched! From the very first email exchange, I knew I wanted Michelle to be a part of my wedding. She unbelievably responsive with even the smallest of questions. Her recommendations are spot on. Her willingness to jump in and help with preparations (especially when you're out of the country) is simply a Godsend. Michelle's ability to take the words from your questionnaire and build them into a wedding ceremony that brings tears to not only your eyes but to that of strangers simply passing by is something you will treasure for the rest of your life. Her eyes and giant smile during your ceremony will show you just how much she truly does care. I only wish I could fly her to the States to officiate over my children's weddings as she did for our wedding on October 5, 2019 in Paris. Michelle is a remarkable woman who has definitely allowed her faith and commitment lead her to the perfect profession. She is a blessing! Kelly & Mark White, Florida
Sara
Sara Sent on 09/20/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Exceeded All Expectations

I'm so happy I stumbled upon Ruffled by Grace. Michelle made the process of eloping so much easier. Not only did she created a personalized, beautiful and meaningful ceremony for us that far exceeded our expectations, but she also put us in touch with other vendors for our big day. We had an incredible photographer (www.missparisphoto.com) and a beautiful bouquet all thanks to her! I have no doubt anyone she recommends would be equally great to work with. She truly enjoys helping people celebrate their love and goes out of her way to do it in a way that suits the couple.
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Nicolas Sent on 08/08/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing performance in a 200+ guests wedding

As a French-American couple / newly-weds, Michelle was the perfect fit.
She led such a beautiful ceremony for us in Burgundy in front of 200+ guests.
The communication with Michelle was always great and she was very responsive and easygoing.
We were pleasantly surprised by the way she managed the whole ceremony without an ounce of stress, always making us feel great!
We would strongly recommend recommend her services for an English speaking wedding.
Thanks again so much!!
Steph
Steph Sent on 06/03/2019
5 out of 5 rating

The best decision we made, besides deciding to get married.

When we decided to get married in France, we knew were tackling a pretty big task. I wanted to make it as simple as possible by having a ceremony at the house we rented and doing all the other things- video, photography, hair, makeup, etc.- with the help of our families. However, the only thing we couldn't do ourselves was the ceremony. We both really wanted a ceremony that blended traditional and modern, religious and spiritual elements. After some initial searching on French websites, we thought maybe we were asking the impossible, but then I came across the reviews of Michelle on this website. She was very responsive to my initial emails, and her professionalism and warmth were so clear even through emails that I felt confident booking her right away. I think both my now husband and I would agree that we're so incredibly happy with that decision. Michelle was so easy to communicate with, and not only did she really get to know us through questionnaires and Facetime meetings, but she helped guide us towards the best possible ceremony. The day of the wedding was SO stressful, but I felt more relaxed as soon as Michelle arrived- she came all the way down to Avignon from Paris.

The ceremony she performed for us was absolutely PERFECT. I mean genuinely perfect. Everything Michelle said in her homily and all the little additions to the ceremony were perfectly tailored to us, and I don't think there was a dry eye anywhere among us or our family members. She made everyone feel welcome and included in the ceremony, and her words made the moment feel truly momentous and special. Every single one of our family members told me multiple times that day how much they loved Michelle and the ceremony. I'm so glad we have it on video, because it is a memory I want to cherish forever. Whatever it is you need for your wedding in France, Michelle will deliver, and using her as your officiant will be the second best thing you do.
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Travis Sent on 05/11/2019
5 out of 5 rating

10-year Vow Renewal

My wife and I were able to plan out 10-year vow renewal with Michelle. She was very detailed and thoughtful during the entire planning process. During the ceremony it was obvious that the prep work was completed. The ceremony was so on point I am glad I did not wrote my own vows as her own words were able to capture everything I wanted to say and more.

Leah
Leah Sent on 02/25/2019
5 out of 5 rating

I can't say enough good things about Michelle!

Do not hesitate. Michelle will make your day!
With less than three weeks before our Paris elopement, Michelle pulled off a miracle and connected us with an absolutely wonderful hair/makeup artist, florist, and an equally noteworthy photographer! She even picked up the bouquet the day of the ceremony for us. She was very responsive, organized, and engaging from the beginning. She got to know us very quickly through a thorough questionnaire, offered many choices for the ring exchange verbiage, and made sure we were comfortable with everything. Morning of the ceremony she even texted me "Happy Wedding Day". The ceremony was perfectly unique and personal with every detail we provided. I'll never forget Michelle and the joy she brought to our special day.
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

1 Endorsement
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Michelle is a joy to be around. She is kind and full of love and brings something extra to ceremonies with her genuine excitement for the love couples share. She goes the extra step to always make ceremonies as special and to the clients needs as possible. If I could I would work with her for all ceremonies.

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