For as long as I can remember there has been a stigma that follows the word “Prenuptial Agreement” aka “Prenup.” Many may view the Prenup as a negative thing by asking the common question: “Why would I make plans for my marriage to fail before I even walk down the aisle?”

A shift in our societal perspective is needed. Through my personal view, a Prenuptial Agreement is like insurance - “in case something happens.” We don’t purchase a healthcare insurance policy with the mindset that we are going to become ill, but rather we have the insurance policy in the case we do become ill. We find solace in having insurance that provides a safety net for medical care and expenses. This same logic can be applied to Prenuptial Agreements. After spending the past several years in family law, I have witnessed firsthand how quickly things can go south when couple finds themselves at odds in their marriage. With having a Prenuptial Agreement in place, most of the hard conversations - especially with finances - have been discussed and agreed upon during a state of love…instead of mudslinging. Even if you do not sign a prenup, having these tough conversations with your future spouse prior to exchanging vows will only strengthen your relationship’s core foundation with communication and transparency.

As the Modern Legal Firm Administrator, I am often the first point of contact for prospective clients and pride myself in listening to each individual who contacts our firm to pair them with the best attorney suited for the unique needs for a consultation.

Assisting families in dealing with and avoiding as much emotional turmoil as possible – for the last decade this has been what keeps me going. As a family law attorney, I spend my time developing solutions that reduce the emotional turmoil often faced in the mist of family adjustments and disputes. At the beginning of a couple’s journey together, I admire the ability of soon-to-be spouses to sit down and develop an “insurance policy” in the event the couple decides to hold their property in a way other than what the law has determined or how best to end their journey together. The insurance policy of a “Prenup” is one of the best ways I have seen couples avoid the emotional turmoil that comes with financial discord and prolonged divorce litigation. Walking down the aisle is a joyous occasion, and knowing you have insurance policies that protect you in the event of different circumstances will make the occasion that much more joyous. Be sure to talk with myself and our team to answer any of your questions and help you make that walk down the aisle as confident, secure, and joyous as possible.

One of the best parts of my job is meeting with newly engaged individuals interested in a prenuptial agreement – it is incredibly rewarding and special to be involved in such an exciting time in your life! While some people may view prenups as unromantic, I view them as an opportunity for couples to have meaningful conversations and continue to build upon a strong foundation. In my experience, crafting a prenup can offer couples a sense of security, relieving a lot of stress and uncertainty. A prenup can support and fulfill your unique goals as a couple, whether it’s safeguarding a family business, clarifying expectations surrounding financial responsibilities, or protecting personal assets. When I meet with clients, I strive to ensure that they are empowered to make informed decisions that will positively impact their future together. So, if you’re planning to tie the knot or simply exploring the idea of a prenuptial agreement, I would love to connect with you!