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Who hasn’t dreamed—thanks to a little Hollywood magic—of being married by a sea captain, whether it was Katharine Hepburn and Humphrey Bogart in The African Queen, a swashbuckling union in Pirates of the Caribbean, or wishing it so for the star-crossed lovers of Titanic? While these cinematic moments are mostly myth, the romance of a captain-led wedding still captures the imagination.

Captain Ray Goad answered the call of the water in law school at UNC Chapel Hill, restoring a vintage Chris Craft and keeping it on the Carolina Intracoastal Waterway. As General Counsel for Westin Hotel Company in Seattle, he sailed the Inside Passage and served as an Officer of the Seattle Yacht Club. Upon retirement to South Florida, he worked for more than a decade as a professional captain for yacht charters in the Caribbean waters of South Florida—and now enjoys the sunshine of Rancho Mirage, California.

Asked by friends to officiate their wedding, Ray discovered that while most sea captains can’t legally marry couples, ordained ministers can—and he was already one, with years of leadership in a major denomination. Since 2014, Captain Ray has united couples on South Florida beaches, aboard gleaming yachts, at scenic lighthouse venues, and even at Mar Largo, always bringing nautical flair and heartfelt warmth.

A landlocked Sea Captain can authoritatively add elegance and adventure to your wedding plans. Captain Ray looks forward to making your special day as legendary as Hollywood’s most iconic love stories.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$250

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA
FL

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Married by A Sea Captain

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Matthew Sent on 04/28/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful officiant

My husband and I had such a beautiful wedding ceremony thanks to Capt Ray! He prepared such beautiful words that really incorporated our love story and our family in such a way there wasn’t a dry eye in the house! Our day wouldn’t have been what it was without his officiating.
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Jim C. Sent on 04/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Captain Ray was professional, stayed in touch through the entire planning process, put together a delightful ceremony, and was very pleasant.

Captain Ray was professional, polite, friendly, and fun to be around. He helped us plan the wedding, including putting together a beautiful ceremony. He stayed in touch throughout the entire planning process and came early to the ceremony site to make sure all was ready and everything ran smoothly. My wife and I will always have happy memories of a day that Captain Ray was a vital part.
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22423Af9340C3587485Ca5Ae2970785Cebdd91Dc Sent on 12/02/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Captain Ray was the perfect choice for us

My husband and I were so fortunate to have found Captain Ray to officiate our ceremony. We were from out of state, so we met with him virtually to walk through our story and he made the process so easy for us. He created a very thoughtful ceremony script that touched on so many unique aspects of our relationship. His kind, calm and professional demeanor helped to calm our nerves. We couldn't be happier with the way the ceremony was delivered and are so thankful for his time and effort towards our most special day. Thank you, Captain Ray!
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Ivy Sent on 02/21/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Best Decision Ever!

We hired Captain Ray to officiate our wedding because my Husband is a Yacht Captain. He was on time, so friendly and after asking us many questions about us during our first meeting, came up with the most beautiful ceremony, almost as if he'd known us for years. On our wedding day, he was so impressive in his uniform, well prepared and everything went just as planned. He delivered our license to the local courthouse the very next business day and emailed us the stamped copy that same day. He was outstanding! Definitely one of our best decisions for our wedding day.
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Caroline Sent on 09/25/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Captain Ray was amazing

We loved having Captain Ray as our officiant. He was so lovely and easy to work with. We could not have had a better experience, and he had a great part in making our day perfect.
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T R Sent on 08/06/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Captain Ray Became Part of Family

Captain Ray was easy to work with, flexible, and trustworthy. Best of all he has a kind and gentle spirit - the perfect compliment for a special day. We decided to elope and Captain Ray became the unofficial representative for all our missing family members. We can highly recommend him for two or two hundred. Thank you, Captain Ray!
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Rachel Sent on 04/30/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Heartfelt wedding Ceremony

Captain Ray was a pleasure to work with. He made sure our ceremony was exactly how we wanted it. He created a story so our friends and family could know just how much we loved and cared for each other. We had guests coming up to us raving about the ceremony and how they have never heard a wedding ceremony so thoughtful and personalized. It was truly a magical day! Thank you Captain Ray for such a great experience!
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Tiffany Sent on 11/20/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect! Absolutely the best choice!

Captain Ray was absolutely the best! We came from out of state, so we emailed and had one video chat, that's all that was needed. He wrote the most amazingly, perfect ceremony for us, I cried the first, 2nd and 3rd time I read it! Our family and friends raved about him and thought that he was a friend that had known us for years, what he wrote was THAT good and he delivered it just as well! He was light hearted, witty, sincere, and overall a breeze to work with- made the WHOLE process so easy, especially with getting married in a different state! I would choose him over and over again. You will not be disappointed!
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Jamie Sent on 04/10/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Captain Ray for President!

Captain Ray made our wedding more special that we could have imagined. The care he put into the ceremony, the kindness and compassion he showed on our wedding day and leading up to it, and his organized execution of the administrative tasks made him our wedding angel. We are forever grateful.
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Christian Sent on 01/08/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Best way to get married!

I booked the Sea Captain for my mom's wedding, he was super nice, charismatic, smart, punctual and made everyone feel relaxed and fun. I am going to book the Sea Captain for my own wedding when the day comes!
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