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The love you have nurtured together is yours alone and it has brought you to commit your lives to one another. Your ceremony should reflect your values, your ideals, and all the little moments you have shared. Together let us craft a ceremony that will inspire you and your guests.

I founded Gather in Hope to serve. I have performed weddings in Florida since 2013. I've recently relocated to Baltimore and am now serving the MidAtlantic region. After a much-needed respite, I am booking ceremonies for 2024 and beyond. I deeply enjoy working with couples. I offer weddings, commitments, vow renewals, anniversaries, and blendings of families along with ceremonies for other occasions.

As I celebrate humanity, I do not accept contracts for ceremonies held at venues that self-reference as "plantation." The glorification and whitewashing of chattel slavery must not be unchallenged by the wedding industry. I believe that couples desire that justice and human dignity be part of their celebrations. As more couples consider the context and consequences of available venues, they will make loving choices.

I can recommend Lauren Herod for officiating in North Florida. laurenherod@gmail.com

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  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$300

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jainism
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English
French

Reviews of Gather in Hope

Ash
Ash Sent on 10/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A pleasure to work with

Lily was a pleasure to work with! Over the series of a few calls, she got to know our vision for our ceremony and our personalities and wrote the most beautiful custom ceremony that suited us, our venue, and our vision perfectly. She is so friendly, helpful, and professional and worked so hard to make our day special (and succeeded!). I'm so happy we hired her as our officiant. We definitely made the right choice.
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Martina Sent on 07/26/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Just amazing!!!

We had the most beautiful ceremony, met twice before, and was able to incorporate everything we talked about. It was a unique experience that was tailored to our lives.
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Cindy Sent on 02/17/2021
5 out of 5 rating

vow renewal on 12/31/2020

Lily did a fabulous job with our vow renewal ceremony. She spent more than an hour gathering information during a conference call with us. The ceremony itself just what we asked for -simple yet memorable. She incorporated much of what we spoke about into the ceremony. We both were brought to tears throughout it. We highly recommend Lily for that special moment of your own. Cindy & Michael
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Lia V. Sent on 10/22/2020
5 out of 5 rating

A pleasure to work with!

We had a great experience with Lily, first as our ceremony writer then as our officiant as plans changed (as they do in 2020). We appreciated her flexibility in performing the ceremony and attending both our rehearsal and the ceremony itself. Lily asked questions while writing our ceremony that really got to the heart of our relationship and love for one another. During wedding planning in which it is easy to get caught up in the details of the event itself, we both loved that experience and hearing each other's responses centered around our love for one another, our relationship and our hopes and dreams as a couple. Lily was very professional throughout the process and we would definitely recommend her for both ceremony writing and officiating!
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Christie Sent on 08/04/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Gather in Hope is the Best!

I loved working with Lily! As a wedding planner, I know Lily's done dozens of ceremonies, but she found a way to work with my couple to personalize their ceremony to their specific love story! I recommend her to any couple that wants a tailored, organized and professional ceremony that honors their journey! Highly recommend and wish I could give her more stars!
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Carrie Sent on 07/31/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Beautifully amazing!

Lily made our day incredible! She was very easy to work with and made our ceremony one to remember forever. The ceremony she wrote for us fit us perfectly and all of our guests were in awe of how beautiful it was! I highly recommend her!
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Denise Sent on 07/07/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Lovely Officiant

We consider ourselves extremely lucky to find Lily to officiate our wedding at such short notice. She did an interview with us to help shape the script and the result was so beautiful that it brought tears to our eyes. Great writer and even lovelier person. Cannot recommend higher
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Amanda Sent on 07/04/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful and down to Earth Officiant!!

Lily worked with us on a lot of things and was a wonderful officiant. She really understands people and the situations that are thrown at them. She can bring your love across in any number of ways within the ceremony. Very professional and flexible and she was able to travel to our rehearsal and ceremony. Lily is very down to Earth and understanding. She can make the ceremony to your hearts desire and add in any specific tradition (such as handfasting or the traditional vows) and she can also make it however short or long that you would want it to be.
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Johnathan Sent on 03/16/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Personalized and professional!

She did a great job of helping us consider our vows before hand, sought in depth information about us as a couple, and really tailored the ceremony to us as people.
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Jamie Sent on 03/08/2019
5 out of 5 rating

The Best Officiant

Lilly created a beautiful ceremony for our private wedding. She is incredibly thoughtful in her work and really knows how to make people feel special. She was incredibly considerate in the way she worked in little things that were very meaningful to my husband and I. If you want your wedding to be incredibly personal, and to reflect your unique journey as a couple, she is a perfect choice. 10/10.
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