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Dear Ceremony is a wedding officiant service based out of Trumansburg, New York. I'm Benjamin, and I've been a legally ordained officiant for the past two decades. I was registered in 2001 by the City of New York to officiate ceremonies throughout the United States. My goal is to deliver a completely genuine, crafted, and personalized ceremony. My professionalism, experience, and expertise shine through in a joyful, positive, and supportive way. Writing original content for and with couples and performing your ceremony with elegance and warmth, I will strive to make the wedding day as beautiful as you have envisioned.

Description of Services Offered:

Dear Ceremony will meet with you one-on-one via phone, video call, or in-person to help you design the wedding ceremony that fits all of your expectations. I officiate elopements and traditional same-faith, interfaith, same-sex, intercultural, interdenominational, and interracial wedding services. My creative process includes getting to know my clients and their histories, ensuring that each ceremony is very personal and real.

Personalized Ceremonies, written with excellence and a truly caring, expressive touch, are drawn from the features that define you both as a couple. We will create the perfect fitting ceremony, celebrating the life you have already made together, the connection you treasure, and the embrace of your future - with all the anniversaries to come. Gathering your guests of family and friends, we will offer the display of your loving relationship through a professional and well-spoken voice.

With many options available and a true craft for original and specifically written-for-you content, we will create the whole picture, leading to a customized ceremony that speaks for your lives together. Whether your preference is romantic and sweet or lighthearted and fun, I am here to write the words in any way that suits both of you.

After speaking on the phone and getting to hear each other, making sure your officiant is a good match for your vision, we can set a date to move forward with a process where I will take notes on what you're both looking for (even if you're not exactly sure at this time) and walk you through the whole ceremony, from walking down the aisle, to the kiss and cheering guests.

After this, I construct an outline with the information gathered, we have our base for proceeding with the arranging and adding of content over the next few months. There's no sense of rushing and no feeling of "homework" - rather a sense of grounded confidence and trust as we move along in tailoring the perfect ceremony for your wedding day.

Always available, kind-hearted, and helpful, my 21 years of experience will make this a fun and easy process.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$450

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$225

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$225

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jainism
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Sikhism
Taoist

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English

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Ben, a highly recommended officiant, impressed couples with his kindness, professionalism, and personalized approach to ceremonies. His calming presence and attention to detail made the wedding ceremony special for many, with personalized touches and guidance that created unforgettable moments. From working with anxious couples to crafting beautiful, short, and heartfelt ceremonies, Ben was praised for his accommodating nature, flexibility, and ability to create tailored and memorable experiences for each couple. Highly recommended for a stress-free and personalized wedding ceremony.

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Ben, a highly recommended officiant, impressed couples with his kindness, professionalism, and personalized approach to ceremonies. His calming presence and attention to detail made the wedding ceremony special for many, with personalized touches and guidance that created unforgettable moments. From working with anxious couples to crafting beautiful, short, and heartfelt ceremonies, Ben was praised for his accommodating nature, flexibility, and ability to create tailored and memorable experiences for each couple. Highly recommended for a stress-free and personalized wedding ceremony.

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Tim C. Sent on 10/11/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Exactly what we wanted

This is was exactly what we wanted for our wedding. The flexibility and care that was taken over the several months leading to wedding helped make our big day fantastic. Benjamin offered a calming presence, arrived early, and handled the little things without guidance like talking with the DJ, signing the marriage license, and organizing details of the ceremony to make it as perfect as possible. My wife and I also wrote own vows and Benjamin took time to read them over and provide us with printed write ups. I appreciate everything he did and would highly recommend.
Jess
Jess Sent on 11/15/2024
5 out of 5 rating

An Amazing Officiant Who Made Our Day Perfect!

We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! From the very beginning, Ben was so kind and approachable that it felt like we were working with a close friend. He took the time to review every detail with us, answering all our questions and ensuring we were completely comfortable. His warmth and professionalism made the ceremony truly special. We are so grateful for his guidance and presence— he genuinely cared about making our day perfect. Highly recommend!
Katie
Katie Sent on 11/21/2023
5 out of 5 rating

A great experience!

Ben made the process of planning our ceremony easy and low stress. From our first call with him until the day of the wedding, he was a calming presence and offered great advice and feedback! He was very flexible, professional, and responsive in the months leading up to the wedding. The ceremony was beautiful and our guests had nothing but amazing things to say about Ben! Would highly recommend him to anyone!

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