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    An Amazing Officiant Who Made Our Day Perfect!

    We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! From the very beginning, Ben was so kind and approachable that it felt like we were working with a close friend. He took the time to review every detail with us, answering all our questions and ensuring we were completely comfortable. His warmth and professionalism made the ceremony truly special. We are so grateful for his guidance and presence— he genuinely cared about making our day perfect. Highly recommend!
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    Katie Sent on 11/21/2023
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    A great experience!

    Ben made the process of planning our ceremony easy and low stress. From our first call with him until the day of the wedding, he was a calming presence and offered great advice and feedback! He was very flexible, professional, and responsive in the months leading up to the wedding. The ceremony was beautiful and our guests had nothing but amazing things to say about Ben! Would highly recommend him to anyone!
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    Melanie Sent on 06/07/2023
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    Beautiful ceremony!

    Ben is a wonderful officiant and made our wedding ceremony perfect. My husband & I are both anxious and shy people, and Ben made sure to make our ceremony short & sweet so we were comfortable. Ben went out of his way to help us with everything & we really couldn't have done it without him. Thank you so much Ben, you're the best!
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    Jonathan Sent on 10/25/2022
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    Incredible!

    Ben was amazing from the start, we began planning with only a 2 month window to the day. He gave us so much helpful information, we had no idea how any of this worked, and he tailored the entire thing around our backgrounds, and our personalities. Ben provided examples and lots of material to pick and choose from, and was super open to ideas from us and incorporating them into the ceremony. He kept checking in on us and helped make sure our moment was incredible. Ben anticipated every aspect of the day down to the smallest detail, so that when the actual ceremony began it ran so smoothly, it was as if we had rehearsed it several times (we had not!) And most of that is credit to him and his preparations for us and for the day. Also he was so genuinely friendly that after the ceremony he felt like part of the wedding party, I had people asking afterwards because he was so memorable.

    Work with Ben and that's one less thing you need to worry about on your big day. We cannot recommend him enough!

    Jon & Chantel

    ps. - we tried to find some photos with Ben in it, but he strategically moves right before they happen so he's not photobombing anyone, we only got a couple!
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    Justine Sent on 09/07/2022
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    The Greatest Wedding Experience ever!

    Ben is an incredibly kind hearted individual with such a positive spirit. Having him as our officiant was one of the greatest decisions we made for our wedding day. We are an interfaith couple and Ben helped us in piecing our ceremony together to respect both of our religions as well as our personality in the way we wanted it represented. We highly recommend Dear Ceremony to any couple regardless of being an interfaith couple. You will not regret the decision!
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    Heather Sent on 08/03/2022
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    Couldn’t Have Asked For a Better Officiant

    Ben was beyond amazing. He is so calming and so eloquent with his words and delivery and he had so many great recommendations that I would have never thought of. He far surpassed all of my expectations and I cannot thank him enough for making our ceremony so special. I would highly recommend Ben over and over as a wedding officiant.
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    Michael Sent on 11/08/2021
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    Ben's word's, tone, and presence brought peace to our special day.

    Ben spent time one-on-one with us to inspire and reassure us of how perfect our special day was going to be. As Floridians having a wedding in New York, this was critical. We were impressed with our meetings but everyone was touched by his calm, well-spoken and peaceful officiating skills. Fate brought us together and fate brought Ben to us on our special day. He is truly inspiring. Thank you Ben for being apart of our special day.
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    Christina Sent on 10/27/2021
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    GREAT Value, Flexible and Lovely!

    Benjamin was an absolute dream to work with. He worked with us to hand craft our vows and gave us a group of options to start from. Benjamin encouraged us to write up a history and "our story" which he tweaked and delivered day of. All of our guests were so in love with everything we chose to do and with Benjamin's delivery. We were initially going to have a friend officiate and I couldn't be happier that we decided to go to Benajmin. He also was very timely with getting our paperwork in so getting our marriage license was a breeze. I would hire him 100 times over!
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    Alicia Sent on 10/21/2021
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    Ben was amazing!

    We loved working with Ben for our wedding. We chatted with him multiple times ahead of our wedding day. He provided us with a beautiful template for the ceremony, and allowed us to modify as much or as little was we wanted, and he provided us with many options for certain things to include. We chose to keep it pretty minimal, but he worked with our requests and needs, and really took our outlook to heart to generate a perfect ceremony that felt personalized. I would highly recommend Ben to anyone planning a wedding! Multiple guests also stated that he had the most calming voice and wanted him to get a deal recording eBooks or meditation apps! Thanks for everything, Ben!
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    Michelle Sent on 10/12/2021
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    Ben is amazing

    We hired Ben based off his amazing reviews and he did not disappoint! His cool and calm demeanor made us feel relaxed and less anxious, which is huge when you have pre-wedding jitters. From the very beginning he was so responsive and helpful. He really listened to our story as a couple and came up with a beautiful ceremony - everyone told us afterwards how much they loved what he said. We can't recommend him enough!!!!
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    Melanie Sent on 10/05/2021
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    Perfection does not even describe our ceremony!

    All I can say is wow! Ben was absolutely amazing. My husband and I really did not know what we wanted for a ceremony. Ben spent a huge amount of time getting to know us and our love story and put together the most beautiful ceremony! The most amazing part was incorporating our kids into a very special family piece of the ceremony! If I could give Ben 100 stars that would not be enough!
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    J & Sent on 09/06/2021
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    Wedding Officiant

    Benjamin is calm and collected. From the beginning to the end of the whole process, he guided us every step of the way. Benjamin was accommodating with our busy schedules to set time for calls to discuss the ceremony. We loved our personalized ceremony. Benjamin worked closely with us to make our ceremony unique and special. During the ceremony, he told us what to do. Thank you!
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    Melanie Sent on 08/19/2021
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    Competent, experienced officiant who will help you craft a meaningful ceremony

    Though we debated asking a friend or family member to officiate our wedding, I'm so glad we chose Ben in the end. My partner and I actually wrote the entire ceremony ourselves, but we couldn't have done it without Ben, who provided us with templates, examples, and invaluable guidance from the many ceremonies that he's done in the past. We also had multiple conversations with Ben before the big day where he asked us meaningful questions and helped us figure out what kind of ceremony we wanted to craft together. Additionally, he led a rehearsal the day before the wedding, which was hugely helpful. Since he's an objective third party, he could kind of tell people what to do in a way that wasn't awkward (e.g., maybe the ring bearer should walk a little slower) — plus Ben is incredibly kind, so he has a way of phrasing everything gently and positively. I felt like we could really trust Ben to pull the ceremony together and keep it together. I definitely recommend him
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    Caitlin Sent on 11/16/2020
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    Absolutely amazing

    Benjamin is an incredible officiator and writer - at least of wedding ceremonies if nothing else. From first contact to assistance after the wedding and every single step between he was our ideal officiator. He was helpful, kind, and passionate about his job. He even helped when we had some technical problems setting up a livestream for family and friends and assisted with staging things nicely for the ceremony. If you are looking for an officiator in the Finger Lakes, this is your guy. You will not regret it.
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    Cheyenne Sent on 10/07/2020
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    Benjamin is amazing!

    Trying to plan a ceremony in 2020 is something else but Benjamin was amazing! He made everything simple to plan remotely and our ceremony was truly beautiful! I highly recommend him!
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    Rachel Sent on 09/25/2020
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    Personal and attentive to our desires

    Benjamin created the perfect ceremony for us! He listened to what we wanted, was warm and attentive, and made us feel comfortable at all points in the process.
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    Calm, cool, and just right for our ceremony!

    Benjamin was a great officiant for our wedding! He made a point to get to know me and my husband before the wedding, even though we were so far away from where the wedding took place. He helped us personalize our ceremony, making it as beautiful, and as special as we wanted it to be! He was also such a calming presence when I was in panic mode the night of rehearsal when we were double-booked at the venue! He went right with the flow and helped me in any way he could!
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    Life saving officiant

    I contacted Benjamin after another officiant cancelled on us two months out. I thinks things worked out for the better! He was so patient with us and was very available to ease any of my worries. He had no problem editing the script to match us and our wants. On our wedding day he was very professional and I everyone was complimenting his calm reading style.
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    Emily Sent on 09/27/2016
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    Ben was wonderful! He was so very nice and I couldn't have imagined a more wonderful ceremony! Definitely recommend!!!
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    Kris Sent on 11/02/2024
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    Wonderful officiant!

    We are so happy we chose Ben to officiate our wedding! He is kind and has a calm and confident presence. He is also a total professional we felt we could trust from the first time we spoke to him by phone.

    Ben helped us personalize our ceremony, and the process of working with him flowed effortlessly. He did an amazing job officiating our recent elopment at the arboretum at Cornell. He exuded a heartfelt presence, with space for humor, and helped us make our ceremony an incredibly special experience.

    We recommend Ben to anyone looking for an officiant who can guide you through the preparation of your wedding and the big day!
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    Wonderful Wedding Day w Benjamin

    We couldn't have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! From our first meeting, Benjamin was absolutely amazing. He took the time to get to know us and hear our story, giving us an incredibly personal and meaningful day.

    On the day of the wedding, Benjamin brought such warmth and joy to the ceremony. It was beautiful and so much fun.

    We also appreciated how organized and professional Benjamin was throughout the entire process. He provided several ceremony plans with us, and worked with us to choose the words and style to fit our personalities. He told our story as if he had known us from the beginning.

    If you’re looking for someone to officiate your wedding, we highly recommend Benjamin! He truly helped make our day unforgettable.
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    Dylan Sent on 10/29/2024
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    Excellent!

    Benjamin was very helpful and flexible throughout the whole process. He presented us with options for our ceremony and let us steer it the way we wanted. He performed a beautiful ceremony that our guests remarked multiple times how much they enjoyed.
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    Stephanie Sent on 09/03/2024
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    Ben was great to work with!

    Ben was great to work with! Easy to talk to and understood what we wanted for our small wedding.
    When we found out my parents wouldn’t be able to come to our wedding, he was willing to do an impromptu virtual ceremony for them the weekend before. They really appreciated it, and we appreciated him doing the ceremony twice!
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    Private Elopement

    My partner (now husband) and I had been together for 20 years and finally decided to get married. We wanted a private, but special ceremony that we could video and photograph to later share with friends and family. Ben helped us to create a ceremony that was also a celebration of all our years together. He provided sample readings, helpful suggestions, and guidance. On the day of the service he was prompt, professional, and worked well with the photographer and videographer. He is truly a kind person and a professional. We highly recommend him!
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