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    Magdalene S. Sent on 11/03/2023
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    Professional, flexible, and easy to work with!

    Ben was the perfect officiant for our day! From our first meeting, to the day of, there was never any concern that Ben would do a great job for our ceremony. He was so easy to collaborate with on our ceremony and even worked with us as we made last minute tweaks the night before. His tone and pace during the ceremony was great. It was easy for my husband and I to be ourselves during conversations with Ben which helped set an accurate tone for our ceremony. We would highly recommend booking Ben for your wedding!!
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    Cait C. Sent on 10/11/2023
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    The Perfect Comforting Presence

    We absolutely loved working with Ben - and we're so grateful to have had him as our wedding officiant. He was fantastic to work with throughout the planning process, and always made us feel comfortable and confident with our ceremony choices. Communicating with him long-distance was never a challenge, and he was always made us feel both heard and valued. On "our day" he was cool, calm and collected - and was the reassuring voice to our nervous energy. He encouraged my (now husband) to take one last deep breath right before I came down the aisle...the perfect gesture and solid advice.

    During our vow readings and first kiss, he discreetly disappeared so the focus would be on us - we have so few photos of him!

    We could not recommend Ben more - Thanks!!

    Dear Ceremony's reply:

    Haha - awww this is so sweet of you, Cait! Such a great description of such a beautiful day. I felt like I had a part in the most fantastical movie. Perfecto and such a warm family feel too - that was so present. Having the Grandparents sign the license was a treasure. Best! Congrats 🎉
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    Emily D. Sent on 12/04/2023
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    Wonderful!!

    Ben was wonderful. We had a stressful event happen just a couple of months before the wedding, shortly after booking with him! I was worried about not having enough time to get the details of the ceremony the way we wanted, but he assured us that he would be able to make it work and he definitely delivered! My mom, as well as many other family members, could not believe we “just found him online.” They raved about what a beautiful ceremony it was and were very impressed with him from start to finish! I am so happy we chose him to officiate our wedding and will always be grateful to him for making our marriage official in such a beautiful way.
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    Erica L. Sent on 10/02/2023
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    Highly recommend Benjamin Marlan

    We were so pleased with Ben Marlan as our wedding officiant. He helped us to create a thoughtful magical ceremony that worked for us.
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    Marie B. Sent on 09/22/2023
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    officant Ben

    Ben was very professional. He was easy to work with friendly. He was punctual and made our day very memorable. He worked very well and bounced off both our personalizes.

    Dear Ceremony's reply:

    Thanks very much Marie!

    Please send or post photos. I had a great time in that park with your friends and family. Your friends really did so much to help their beloved Bride & Bride. It was great to see. I’m happy I had a part in such a perfect day.
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    Katie Sent on 11/21/2023
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    A great experience!

    Ben made the process of planning our ceremony easy and low stress. From our first call with him until the day of the wedding, he was a calming presence and offered great advice and feedback! He was very flexible, professional, and responsive in the months leading up to the wedding. The ceremony was beautiful and our guests had nothing but amazing things to say about Ben! Would highly recommend him to anyone!
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    Alexis B. Sent on 08/11/2023
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    Great experience! Very professional

    Ben was everything I could ask for in an officiant. He was extremely professional and always responded to emails in a timely manner. He did a great job of capturing our love.
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    Zoe U. Sent on 08/12/2023
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    A grounded, calm, officiant

    If you're a couple that values a grounded persona with a calming presence and voice providing guidance on a hectic day filled with a hundred things to orchestrate and worry over, Ben as your wedding officiant, in whichever capacity, is one of the smartest decisions you can make. Having his calming presence and confidence in knowing what works best was of tremendous value to myself and my bride, and proved to be an invaluable asset to guide us through our wedding ceremony.
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    Melanie Sent on 06/07/2023
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    Beautiful ceremony!

    Ben is a wonderful officiant and made our wedding ceremony perfect. My husband & I are both anxious and shy people, and Ben made sure to make our ceremony short & sweet so we were comfortable. Ben went out of his way to help us with everything & we really couldn't have done it without him. Thank you so much Ben, you're the best!
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    Taylor C. Sent on 06/06/2023
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    Dear Ceremony is awesome!

    Ben from Dear Ceremony was a fantastic officiant. He was attentive and open to our needs and suggestions. He supported and encouraged us through the entire process and made our ceremony Gorgeous! If you want your wedding to be perfect ask for Ben!

    Dear Ceremony's reply:

    Thank you Taylor! You guys rock - that was super fun - very happy to be there. You have a very sweet family!
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    Sonya W. Sent on 11/27/2023
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    Ben was wonderful!!

    We highly recommend Benjamin Marlin to anyone looking for an officiant. He's very kind, easy to talk with, listens to you and helps guide you through the process if like us, it's your first time :)
    The ceremony he created for us was perfect. Short and very sweet! He helped us incorporate our families and friends into the I Do's and we were so touched by what he had written, we used it as a keepsake that we'll cherish forever. Thank you Ben!!
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    Aislinn R. Sent on 05/31/2023
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    Wonderful service!

    Our ceremony was great. It was read with just the right inflection by Ben, and kept the attention of the guests.
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    Jonathan L. Sent on 10/25/2022
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    Incredible!

    Ben was amazing from the start, we began planning with only a 2 month window to the day. He gave us so much helpful information, we had no idea how any of this worked, and he tailored the entire thing around our backgrounds, and our personalities. Ben provided examples and lots of material to pick and choose from, and was super open to ideas from us and incorporating them into the ceremony. He kept checking in on us and helped make sure our moment was incredible. Ben anticipated every aspect of the day down to the smallest detail, so that when the actual ceremony began it ran so smoothly, it was as if we had rehearsed it several times (we had not!) And most of that is credit to him and his preparations for us and for the day. Also he was so genuinely friendly that after the ceremony he felt like part of the wedding party, I had people asking afterwards because he was so memorable.

    Work with Ben and that's one less thing you need to worry about on your big day. We cannot recommend him enough!

    Jon & Chantel

    ps. - we tried to find some photos with Ben in it, but he strategically moves right before they happen so he's not photobombing anyone, we only got a couple!
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    Caelen C. Sent on 11/01/2022
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    We had an excellent time working with Ben to put together our wedding ceremony. He walked us through a variety of options for the ceremony, and allowed us to customize each aspect. He was very responsive to questions, and made time to meet with us as often as we needed to finalize all of the details. We highly recommend working with Dear Ceremony, our experience could not have been better.
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    Zachary M. Sent on 07/20/2022
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    Can’t say enough good about Ben.

    I’m not sure where to start with this review for Ben. He was everything we wanted but didn’t know we needed. His calm and down to earth personality, mixed with his calming voice got us through the most anxiety ridden 30 minutes I’ve experienced. The most memorable thing I can say about Ben, is when I first walked down the isle waiting for my now wife to walk down, he could tell how nervous I was and fighting to hold back tears already. I approached the arbor and as I stood there, Ben looked at me and told me to take some deep breaths, he led me through what felt like a mini-meditation exercise with him guiding it. Ben then told me, “feel this, live in this moment.”
    He couldn’t have been more correct to stay present in that moment, that felt like it flew by. The ceremony itself couldn’t have gone any smoother with Ben leading. He is one of the most genuine and down to earth people we’ve ever met. He was genuinely interested in learning about our story, our relationship and our love, so he could encapsulate that in to the ceremony. I wouldn’t have wanted anyone else up there with us, leading our ceremony.
    Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for everything Ben! We can’t thank you enough.
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    Sara D. Sent on 10/14/2022
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    "The most naturally beautiful wedding I've ever been to"

    The ceremony can often be a forgettable or boring part of a wedding, but Ben helped us to create something that was memorable and beautiful. We were looking to have a ceremony that had a somewhat traditional structure, and was personal, meaningful, and not too religious. Ben met with us several times before the ceremony to help with planning, he responded to our needs and even made his own requests that made the ceremony better. In particular, he suggested adding a flower ceremony and a beer ceremony, which went extremely well. He even helped us write our vows, sent a ceremony outline, and was extremely open to the idea of swapping out traditional bible readings with poems and song lyrics.

    Our wedding was truly unforgettable thanks to Ben. We were told that our ceremony was one of the "most naturally beautiful ceremonies" our guests have ever seen. I highly recommend Ben to help you plan your wedding.
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    Justine C. Sent on 09/07/2022
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    The Greatest Wedding Experience ever!

    Ben is an incredibly kind hearted individual with such a positive spirit. Having him as our officiant was one of the greatest decisions we made for our wedding day. We are an interfaith couple and Ben helped us in piecing our ceremony together to respect both of our religions as well as our personality in the way we wanted it represented. We highly recommend Dear Ceremony to any couple regardless of being an interfaith couple. You will not regret the decision!
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    John K. Sent on 08/29/2022
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    Perfect ceremony

    Ben did an amazing job at helping us plan and write our ceremony. He incorporated everything we asked him to not just to celebrate us as a couple but our families and children as well. Highly recommend Ben to anyone!

    Dear Ceremony's reply:

    Thanks John and Steph! What a lovely day, Incredible location and wonderful family history. Thank you
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    Jennifer J. Sent on 08/24/2022
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    Perfection

    From the first call we had with Ben we knew we wanted him to marry us. We were also able to meet in person and we had such a great conversation. We felt he “got us” and made us laugh which was just what we needed. Highly recommend!!!!
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    Heather L. Sent on 08/03/2022
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    Couldn’t Have Asked For a Better Officiant

    Ben was beyond amazing. He is so calming and so eloquent with his words and delivery and he had so many great recommendations that I would have never thought of. He far surpassed all of my expectations and I cannot thank him enough for making our ceremony so special. I would highly recommend Ben over and over as a wedding officiant.
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    Keri B. Sent on 09/18/2022
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    Hire Ben as your officiant!

    We were not entirely sure where to start when looking for an officiant who would travel with us. Our amazing wedding planner Amber, recommended Ben to us! As soon as we spoke with Ben the first time, we knew he was going to be apart of our special day. He explained the entire process with ease and reassured us whenever I had questions. He is so skilled and will plan the entire ceremony out with you. If you need an officiant, hire Ben!!! You will not be disappointed! Our day would not have been the same without him. Thank you Ben!
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    Katie L. Sent on 07/20/2022
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    Wonderful Experience!

    We absolutely loved working with Ben from start to finish. He crafted a beautiful, personalized ceremony. Highly recommend!
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    Kendra Sent on 07/20/2022
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    Exceptional

    From the moment we first talked to Ben he made us feel like we had known him forever. He was so genuine throughout the entire process and his calming attitude was exactly what we needed on the day of the ceremony. Ben was professional, helpful, and exceptional during the whole thing! I have nothing but wonderful words to say about him and his service!
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    Kaiah Sent on 03/17/2022
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    Extremely helpful.

    Me and my wife wanted a small wedding in a sentimental place with just family. It was both our first marriages (hopefully last lol), so we had alot off questions some simple and some complex. All off our questions were answered in a kind and happy manner, with helpful suggestions that were just that... suggestions. Never felt pressured and was given time to think and respond accordingly and ben was very happy to help. Also he even helped on the price as well and I think was fairly priced. The words he spoke at the wedding were very fitting with good flow as well. The last thing I'd like to mention is that he seemed genuinely happy, I'm a decent judge off character and I picked up on no condescension or fake tone off joy, the best way I can put it is imagine someone who genuinely enjoys their job. Thats ben. We definitely recommend him.
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