Ok, so this is just me being curious because a lot of people I speak to, and from what I've seen on here, pretty much everyone is writing/wrote their own vows.
FH and I aren't. I think there is something beautiful about saying the vows that my parents said to each other, and my grandparents said to each other etc. Plus (and this is NOT judgement on anyone who is doing it, just my PERSONAL opinion) I've never been to a wedding where I didn't cringe a little at the personalised vows. So I just have this thing about worrying that people will cringe at mine.
That said, it now seems like its so common to write your own vows that I'm wondering if guests will find it strange that we're not...
So, just being curious to find out if anyone else is not writing their own vows.