I'm feeling like a horrible person. We received a decline from FH's aunt, cousin, and cousin's daughter in Indiana a few weeks ago. I've never met them so it really is of no matter to me -- and FH says they're kind of crazy so "it's all good".
Well, through the grapevine we've learned this weekend that his grandmother is considering paying for her daughter (the aunt) to fly out.
Maybe I'm a horrible person but I just want to be like, "Nope, sorry, you already RSVPed. It's in the computer, can't change it, nope nope nope."
I have absolutely no reason to feel that way -- don't know her, one person won't make that much difference in budget or wedding size ... but I really just don't want to deal with changing any RSVPs! You said no, so your answer is no.
Totally ridiculous on my part.
Anyone else have people say no and then decide to come anyway?
