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Lead Your Love Life

Why couples loved this vendor

  • Marriage License & Certificate
  • Seasoned Professional
  • Officiant
  • Great Planner
Rachel
Tatjana
Helen
CE Awbery
Isha

Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

Lead Your Love Life is a wedding officiant business located in Boulder, Colorado. Celebrant and relationship coach, Sarah Melissa Oswald, works directly with you to create a personalized and unique wedding ceremony. On the day of your wedding, she manages every detail of the ceremony so that you can relax and enjoy each moment with your loved ones. In addition to officiating, Sarah offers premarital coaching to help set the stage for a successful relationship. She believes that your wedding should reflect who you genuinely are and offers nurturing support throughout the ceremony creation process. Sarah strives to be a grounded and loving presence for you on this momentous occasion.

Services Offered

Sarah Melissa Oswald is an ordained minister who provides counseling and customized love stories for all types of couples. Lead Your Love Life provides three detailed packages for couples of all backgrounds, differentiated by various needs and budgets. The following services are available:

  • Interfaith, Non-religious, custom ceremonies
  • Ceremony Rehearsals
  • Premarital coaching
  • Community bonding
  • Vow-writing support
  • Love Story Writing

Experience

Sarah Melissa Oswald has officiated over 120 weddings, with premarital coaching provided to most of those couples. She has spent over a decade designing and facilitating community events, all focused on human connection. She is ordained as a Universal Life Church minister, a certified Gestalt-based Relational Life Therapy practitioner, and facilitator of MatrixWorks: Groups as Living Systems.

Features

Woman-owned

Just me

Experience

  • 10 years in business

  • We speak English

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FAQ

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$200

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$160

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Earth-Based
No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
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CA
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DE
DC
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GA
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KS
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ME
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What languages do you speak?

English

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Reviews of Lead Your Love Life

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Sarah receives glowing reviews for her officiating services, with praise for her personalized and meaningful ceremonies that truly reflect the couple. Reviewers appreciate her thoughtful preparation, calm presence, and ability to create a seamless and authentic experience. Sarah's attention to detail, personalized approach, and collaborative process in crafting ceremonies are highlighted, along with her professionalism, warmth, and genuine care. Additionally, her coaching services are commended for providing valuable insights and support to couples. Overall, Sarah is highly recommended for her exemplary work as an officiant and relationship coach.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

Sarah receives glowing reviews for her officiating services, with praise for her personalized and meaningful ceremonies that truly reflect the couple. Reviewers appreciate her thoughtful preparation, calm presence, and ability to create a seamless and authentic experience. Sarah's attention to detail, personalized approach, and collaborative process in crafting ceremonies are highlighted, along with her professionalism, warmth, and genuine care. Additionally, her coaching services are commended for providing valuable insights and support to couples. Overall, Sarah is highly recommended for her exemplary work as an officiant and relationship coach.

Rachel
Rachel Sent on 07/29/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Sarah is the absolute best officiant!

We’re so glad we found Sarah to be our officiant. From the start, we knew we wanted a ceremony that truly reflected us, and Sarah helped us create exactly that. We spoke with several other officiants before finding her, and choosing Sarah was an easy decision.

While others claimed to offer personalized ceremonies, most didn’t really ask questions or take the time to get to know us. Their version of “custom” felt more like plugging us into a template. With Sarah, it was completely different. She genuinely saw us, took the time to understand who we are as a couple, and really celebrated us.

The process felt collaborative, intentional, and fun. We were invited to be part of every step, and together we created something deeply meaningful, unconventional, and totally us. She took time to meet with us multiple times in the process, and also gathered kind words from our loved ones and wove them in so thoughtfully. Her delivery was both grounded and engaging.

On the day of, Sarah brought the most calming, steady energy and held the space so beautifully. The ceremony felt like a sacred little portal, and we truly believe it wouldn’t have felt that way without her. Even our hardest-to-please guests said it was the best ceremony they had ever been to and were blown away. Many asked if she was a close friend. She wasn’t before, but she is now. :)

Sarah is also a relationship coach, and it shows in the way she holds space and truly understands people. She has the perfect energy for this work. If you want a unique, heartfelt ceremony and a collaborative experience, we cannot recommend her enough. Thank you Sarah for making our day so special.
Tatjana
Tatjana Sent on 11/14/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Empowering Support to Officiate My Brother's Wedding

Sarah helped me officiate my brother’s wedding. Sarah provided many resources and guidance. After the vows, wedding guests came up to me and said the ceremony was PERFECT.
Part of the process, which involved interviewing the couples, the best man, and the maid of honor, actually not only yielded a very complete picture of the couple’s love, which I was able to share with the audience that day, but the interview process also supported the couple in composing their vows, and I suspect it helped the best man and maid of honor write even better speeches.
So grateful to Sarah for sharing her craft with me. It was an enormous help!
Helen
Helen Sent on 11/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Having Sarah officiate our wedding was one of the best decisions we made.

Having Sarah officiate our wedding was one of the best decisions we made. She made the entire process feel seamless and took all the pressure off us (and anyone who’s planned a wedding knows how much pressure there can be!). Everything felt effortless on our part because of her thoughtful preparation and calm presence.

We chose Sarah not just because she’s family, but because she truly knows us. She’s seen our relationship grow from the very beginning, and that made the ceremony feel deeply personal and authentic. I also knew from her past work that she crafts ceremonies that are incredibly meaningful and sentimental, even for couples she’s just met. That level of care and personalization was exactly what we wanted for our day.

One thing that surprised and delighted me was how prepared she was with materials, templates, and ideas. I had no idea where to start, and Sarah made it so easy to find the words and structure that felt right for us.

I’d absolutely recommend Sarah to any couple looking for an officiant. She’s one of the kindest, most genuine people I know, and she brings a beautiful mix of love, warmth, and free-spirited energy that set the perfect tone for our ceremony.
A
Anna Sent on 10/27/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Sarah is an excellent wedding officiant!

Working with Sarah to organize our wedding ceremony was excellent. Her experience and understanding of the flow, and tailoring the ceremony to match our plans worked perfectly for us. She makes a large effort to get to the bride and groom understand what brings them together and weaves a lovely story that is sweet and personal. She is responsive, quick to make adjustments to the script as it is developed, well organized and completely reliable. We would certainly recommend her officiating service to anyone without hesitation.
J
Jessica Sent on 10/27/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Gem of a Human Being

Sarah is a wonderful human being, who continues to astound me with her presence, curiosity, and care towards everyone she interacts with. If you are looking for someone who is willing to be open and to explore what your values are, then I highly recommend Sarah. She makes simple moments meaningful.
CE Awbery
Ce Awbery Sent on 10/27/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Support through relational grief

I wholeheartedly recommend Sarah to anyone seeking support with emotional or relational challenges. She guided me through a period of intense grief and is now helping me with deep trauma work reaching back to early childhood. I couldn’t have asked for a more caring and sensitive practitioner.

As a full-time professional coach, it’s essential for me to have someone I can trust for my own growth and support. From our very first sessions, I felt safe to relax in her presence and trust her with my embodied, somatic experience. I especially value her rare combination of training in both Gestalt therapy and the Relational Life Therapy system.

I am so grateful to have found Sarah and to continue working with her. Sarah's a wonderful and gifted therapist - I strongly recommend seeing her!
Isha
Isha Sent on 10/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Sarah embodies love, connection and genuine care

I’ve known Sarah for over 15 years, and she radiates love, connection, and genuine care. She brings wonder, warmth, and curiosity to everything she touches. If you want an officiant who will make your ceremony feel authentic, personal, and full of heart, Sarah is the perfect match!
B
Brian Sent on 10/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

She's the best!


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“I consulted with Sarah before officiating my first wedding. She was easy to talk to and set my mind at rest that we could create a meaningful ceremony for my friends. She had such insightful and helpful ideas for the ceremony that supported the vision of the couple. After talking with Sarah, instead of feeling anxious for the big day, I felt confident and eager. People were shocked this was my first time officiating! And I owe Sarah for much of my success and enjoyment of the process. I highly recommend her
Xandra
Xandra Sent on 06/28/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Sarah is the best

Sarah was wonderful at helping us craft the perfect ceremony! We went with her Eternity Package, which also included three coaching sessions. We LOVED working with Sarah and getting to know her. She helped us create a meditation circle before the ceremony with close friends - it was beautiful. She was very responsive, warm, professional and attuned throughout all five of our meetings.
A
Abbi Sent on 11/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Best officiant we could've asked for!

Sarah was the first and only officiant we met with in our search but, she made it that easy to choose her! From the beginning we felt very comfortable talking to her and she made the process of building our dream ceremony exciting. She has many "packages" to choose from to fit your ceremony and financial needs, with the added touch of working to make everything feel personal. We are so happy we chose Sarah to do our ceremony and would recommend her to anyone else looking to make their day special.
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
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What better way to get married then to have someone who really cares and supports your vision for your special day. Lead the Love Life is amazing because Sarah has the energy and the personality that is so loving and grounded. She takes the time to get to know the real you so you day isn't someone you barely know up there talking but someone you feel you have known for a lot longer, a friend.

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