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Holly
Savvy October 2020

Who to invite

Holly, on July 22, 2019 at 2:05 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 20
Hey ladies, who all did/ going to invite to your bachelorette party? Is it just the bridesmaids or are you inviting friends too?

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Latest activity by Kayte, on July 23, 2019 at 10:31 AM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I invited both bridesmaids and friends
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  • Brooke
    Expert November 2019
    Brooke ·
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    I only invited my bridesmaids, but that was my choice

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  • Christine
    Expert September 2020
    Christine ·
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    I'm inviting my bridesmaids and some of my other closest friends. I've been invited to bachelorette parties as a non-bridesmaid plenty of times and it's super common nowadays to not limit them to just the bridal party. But it's up to you either way - how large would you like your bachelorette party to be?

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  • Megan
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Megan ·
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    My fiance and I have opted to do a joint get together with our wedding party and their spouses to just eat and have beers. We decided we are both past that "party" stage of our lives haha.
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  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie ·
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    I invited my bridal party and a few friends
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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    I am inviting bridesmaids and friends! They are all equally crazy so it should be a good time lol

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  • Holly
    Savvy October 2020
    Holly ·
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    Ok thanks for all the feedback, I think I’m going to invite both bridal party and friends
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    My 4 bridal party members are invited.
    As well as
    6 close friends
    My officiant (close friend)
    7 sorority sisters

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  • Kristal
    Expert February 2020
    Kristal ·
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    I personally want only my attendants (might have a bridesman instead of a bridesmaid). I wont get to see them much and want to keep things low key. I have a feeling my MoH who is planning it might invite a few other good friends which I dont really want but also am not going to fight. I just dont want anything big.

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  • F
    VIP August 2019
    Futuremrsk ·
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    We are doing a paint bite, so I invited both moms, my cousins, bridesmaids, and a few friends. Basically its all.the younger women, with the exception of the moms. But I wanted them invited, because I know they enjoy paint nites and figure if we want to go out after it's all good.

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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    My bachelorette is just for me and my bridesmaids.

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  • Melissa
    VIP October 2018
    Melissa ·
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    It was a combination of both. And since we technically had three "things" that day (brunch, then baseball game, then bar hopping) the "Core" group was the bridesmaids, and various friends & family joined in for whatever elements of the day they were able to attend.

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  • Mcskipper
    Rockstar July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    Just bridesmaids — If we had stayed in the city where we live and just had a night out, i probably would’ve invited a bigger crew. But what I wanted was a quite chill weekend away where I could totally relax and not have to worry about anyone having a good time (my bp was my 3 besties and they all know and love eachother so I know we’d have a great time
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  • Btbride
    Super August 2019
    Btbride ·
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    Mine is just gonna be me and my bridesmaids, but it's also two days before my wedding so it's gonna be really low key.

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  • Sara
    Super October 2019
    Sara ·
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    I'm doing a weekend trip with my maid of honor, and then bar-hopping locally with any girls coming to the wedding who want to come out.

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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    I invites my bridesmaids and the girlfriends of Hs friends so they had something to do while the guys were at his bachelor party. But it ended up only being the bridesmaids!
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  • J
    Master October 2019
    Jolie ·
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    I invited my bridesmaids, my brother's girlfriend, and two of my other friends. One bridesmaid can't go because she has an under one little one and said she can't afford it without a job and my brother's girlfriend isn't coming either since she went to Cancun recently for her future SIL's bachelorette. So all in all I think it's a decent turn out!

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  • Leslie
    Devoted August 2019
    Leslie ·
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    Our wedding is small, I have 2 in my bridal party and I have 1 other friend that’s invited to the wedding, and she’s being included in the bachelorette plans as well. I think it’s pretty normal now to invite friends outside the bridal party if you want!
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  • Kristen
    VIP June 2020
    Kristen ·
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    I’m only having my bridesmaids, so it will be a total of four of us and maybe my dog too haha
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  • Kayte
    Dedicated October 2019
    Kayte ·
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    For my Bach party we are doing a cruise to the Bahamas out of Miami. Only 3 out of 5 bridesmaids could make it so closer to the wedding I’m having a local Bach party & inviting more friends!
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