Who comes and who don't

For mine I'm inviting the women who live in town that are on my guest list

This is my struggle but with our wedding guest list. At end of the day the ones that truly want to make it will make it and the ones that doesn't oh well it's their loss hopefully they'll send a 🎁😁😂


Ppl get into their feelings way too much but at end of the day invite the ppl who you can't imagine not spending that day with you and invite them❤

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Yes just because the ones who are out of town have to travel very long distances. I don't want to ask them to do that with only a month between the bridal shower and the actual wedding

I narrowed it by people who are local and very close family or friends. There is no reason to invite all the women on your wedding guest list. If it is a groomsman's girlfriend you only met once, you don't need to invite her.

Im only having 25 ppl at the wedding so all the females are coming it will be 15

We had a couples shower and kept it to mostly family. It was about 20-25 guests.

I only invited my friends on my list. I didn't invite any from my husband's and I didn't invite all women from my side either just because they were people I was not very close to or they were more like the guests associated with people I did know.

I'm inviting all the women on my wedding guest list who live locally enough to attend. For example, I'm NOT inviting FHs aunt, who lives in another state. They (her and uncle) will make it to the wedding, but I don't want to ask them to travel out to California more than once. It's expensive, and time consuming.

But my auntie, who lives 3 hours away is definitely getting an invite. I don't know if she'll make the drive, but I'm hoping so!!

It's harder when you have a huge guest list. I don't know how some of you ladies do it, with 150+ guests.

I had a bridal shower so only girls. I invited the ladies in my family even the ones that couldn’t make it to the wedding so grandma, aunts, cousins and mom. Then my mother in law and my close friends. I had a small destination wedding (45 guest) and my shower was 12-15 local guest. I invited a few of my husbands friends wife to get everyone mingling together. The only people I left out were my in laws friends.

We are doing close local friends, bridesmaids, local family, and immediate family (i.e. my FH's mom will be traveling with me to the shower back in my hometown and my aunt is also traveling).