Mrs. A Fernandez
Super May 2015

When Your Date Started Approaching....:-)

Mrs. A Fernandez, on May 20, 2014 at 11:35 AM Posted in Married Life 0 34
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What emotions did you have? I am started to cry already and I have a little over a year:-) When did you start to "Freak out"?


  • Mrs. Laura H.
    Super June 2014
    Mrs. Laura H. ·

    I'm at 39 days, and I'm not really freaking yet. But I'm also a school teacher and am focused on getting through the school year right now. When I'm done at the end of next week I'll probably start to freak about getting everything ready in time. But mostly, I just feel unbelievably happy to be getting married to FH!

  • Macksgirl
    Master August 2014
    Macksgirl ·

    I have 81 days left- Started off with 1 year and 1 month. My bridal shower is this weekend...and I already am starting to feel anxious, excited, ready, appreciated, emotional. I am a VERY sentimental person- so I know i'll cry at the bridal shower just because I am so thankful for all the support and love we are receiving!

    As far as the actual wedding date, I still feel like it will never get here LOL I've waited so freaking long for it to happen...and so I'm still pretty calm about it. But I know a month before I probably will barely eat, and feel super excited and ready to do the damn thing!

  • Mrs. A Fernandez
    Super May 2015
    Mrs. A Fernandez ·

    I am happy for all of the new brides & the soon to be brides:-)

  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·

    I just wanted the wedding to be over. That was my emotion from the beginning. There were times I thought I would go out of my mind because it was still so far off (even the week before).

  • A&G
    Master August 2014
    A&G ·

    I have 80 days and no freaking out here.

    If I'm going to freak it will probably be the week of my wedding when FH and I go back to Ontario and do the final preparations for the wedding.

  • M
    VIP April 2014
    Mrs. Courtney Baytop ·

    I was eerily calm. I went on three job interviews the week of my wedding, went shopping, hung out with friends, etc. I think its different for everyone.

  • Abby
    VIP May 2014
    Abby ·

    I have been so emotional. Everything makes me cry, I am frantic, and just want it to be done lol

  • Mrs.V
    Dedicated May 2014
    Mrs.V ·

    I have 11 days to go and have an unsettling calm about me. Our wedding is only 5 months after getting engaged, so perhaps not having lots of time to change my mind on things has helped. I look around our house at all of the wedding items and can't identify anything that needs to be done, so I guess that's a good sign. Everyone tells me it is because I am so organized. I hope that's the reason and it's not because I'm forgetting about something!

  • DisneyNut
    Master October 2014
    DisneyNut ·

    I've been more emotional than normal already. I hope that calms down or I will never make it through my vows. LOL

  • FindingForever
    Expert June 2014
    FindingForever ·

    I have 19 days to go. I'm kinda felling like IDGAF about everything right now.

    Hopefully when I hit single digits I'll get more excited...

  • L
    Beginner May 2014
    Lesley ·

    I have 11 days and I am just excited. That is the only emotion I have going through me regarding the wedding. All the stressful things are over (for now) and its time to focus on the fun things. I just ordered 25lbs of Hershey kisses for the favors, I got our cake topper in the mail, I got my garter, I am just enjoying being a bride now. My daddy has not seen my dress. I am more excited about the first look with him than I am anything right now.

  • she's country
    Super July 2014
    she's country ·

    I've got about 40 days and I am excited!!! I have started a to do list and need to start crossing things off, but at least I'm getting them down so that I don't forget something. I'm ready to get this show on the road

  • Brady
    Expert May 2014
    Brady ·

    I go between really excited to terrified to stressing out about little thing (like I tried my dress on today because I had a nightmare that I couldnt lift my arms up in my dress and hug anyone)

    But the periods of stress and terror are usually shortlived and then I go back to being excited

    I will say that I wasn't excited about anything a few weeks ago. Prior to that planning the wedding was like a second job that I didn't want and never asked for!

  • Kaegurl
    Master June 2014
    Kaegurl ·

    At 39 days all I feel is excitement!

  • Katydid
    VIP May 2014
    Katydid ·

    I was "done" with the whole thing at 10 days out. 7 days out, I was a hot mess. Now, I am calm, collected, IDGAF-mode.

  • FutureMrsL
    Master July 2014
    FutureMrsL ·

    46 to go and I'm surprisingly calm. I feel like there is more I should be doing! I did a lot of planning early, and I'm enjoying the time to relax!!

  • Allison
    Super May 2014
    Allison ·

    11 days out and very calm. Have moments of excitement too.

    The only time I was stressed was when I was tginking about floral arrangements and when doing the seating chart

  • ELFie
    VIP August 2014
    ELFie ·

    I sort of freaked out yesterday after thinking about whether I want a veil or not, but I think it was the weather and hormones. I felt totally off about everything yesterday and am really busy at work, so I just felt really off my game. We'll see if it happens again!

  • WalkerGirl
    Super August 2014
    WalkerGirl ·

    When talking to my mom and she said "you're getting married 3 months from today"... after having a 2 year old engagement, that one threw me off

  • T-Rex
    Master August 2013
    T-Rex ·

    I never freaked. Had nothing to freak out about. :-)

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