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when he blocks me

, on July 2, 2020 at 6:15 PM Posted in Married Life 0 28
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Every time my husband blocks me I start to recognize that he does it because he does not want to be bother. Perhaps he is working too much & just want to take a break and not talk to me for the time being.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    Yeah, that's not okay. Sounds like it's time to look into some counseling to find better ways to communicate than blocking your spouse.

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  • H
    Super June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    What do you mean he blocks you? I would recommend couples counseling

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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
    Monique ·
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    My headband has never blocked me. Have you asked about the reason behind it?
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  • Hannah
    Rockstar July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I agree with others. Blocking your spouse is a pretty immature move and it's worrisome that it is a regular behavior. I concur with maybe looking into couple's counseling.
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  • Jai Butcher
    Rockstar May 2020
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    It's normal to want some space if hes feel overwhelmed or to even ask your partner for a little relaxing time. We all need it. But blocking is immature and not a good way to communicate
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  • Nefetera
    Rockstar March 2015
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    Why would he block you? Your his wife!!!
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  • Katie
    Expert August 2021
    Katie ·
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    I don't think him blocking you is right. You guys are married and need to communicate. You can't have a functioning relationship without communication. If he needs some alone time or busy at work he should at least tell you. I feel like him just blocking you is a bit immature to do and wrong to do to his wife.
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  • Elmarose04
    Devoted July 2021
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    I believe that allowing him to block you is only opening up a new door for more troubles in your relationship. Communication is key in a relationship and by blocking you he feels this sense of power on being alone and that is not good at all and worse it makes you feel isolated and alone. A relationship is between two people not one and it is okay to want space and take some time but not to the point where it starts to hurt one another. I truly hope you guys can find a middle ground and work through this. There are so many ways to work around this and I'm sure it'll get better for you both as long as your honest about how this makes you feel with your spouse and also be willing to hear him out on how he feels. Taking each others feelings into consideration is important. I'll be praying for your marriage Smiley smile

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  • Erin
    Expert August 2020
    Erin ·
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    I’m sorry but this is a red flag to me. If he’s feeling overwhelmed or needs space, he should be able to communicate that with you. It sounds more like he’s hiding you while he’s out doing other things. Sorry, it’s just my opinion. I really hope that isn’t the case but I’d be cautious and really have a talk about it with him.
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  • Meghan
    Rockstar October 2019
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    Blocks you?! Ummm, no. If my wife ever blocked me there would be major issues. That’s not okay. Sounds like you two have some major issues that need to be discussed.
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    Dedicated May 2021
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    This is a huge red flag. Please consider what PP have said. The fact that he "blocks" you instead of taking the time to discuss with you whatever his issues are, is troubling. PP said it best when they said: "it opens up doors to other kinds of abuse." Please be careful.

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  • Savvy July 2025
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    It is ok he will feel better when I leave him for eternity I guess we all have different reasons to feel for our relationship
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  • Vicky
    Super January 2020
    Vicky ·
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    Wait, what?

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  • MIWM
    VIP June 2019
    MIWM ·
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    That is not ok. I am very confused to why he would do something like that

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  • Kimberly
    Expert March 2021
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    This is very troubling. Please talk to a therapist/counselor.
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  • J
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    Judith ·
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    How long does he block you for? hours, a day, many days? text and talk on your phone?. I mean it sounds bad. But until the last few years of people carrying phones around, most workplaces did not allow personal calls. I know nurses and teachers who could name the 1 to 3 times in 10 years they talked to their FI or spouse in a decade, in 10-12 hours of working and commuting. If he is blocking you for a workday, but communicates evenings at home, it is no big deal. Days turning to weeks, that would be alarming.
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  • Shanice
    Just Said Yes February 2021
    Shanice ·
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    .. .. he.. blocks you? naaaaah, that aint it. sorry this is even happening, you're worth more.

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  • Maria
    Dedicated August 2019
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    RED FLAG. That will only turn into something even worse. You need to go to counseling together because that is NOT how a marriage should be.

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  • Savvy July 2025
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    I like when he blocks me because it gives me time to read our past relationship
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  • Savvy July 2025
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    We both r counselors lol
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