What’s your best Marraige advice??

One piece of advice I received that I ended up putting into my vows: “I promise to take you exactly as you are and to always love you for being you.”


Remember that you’re agreeing to marry them as they are in this moment. Of course you will grow and change together, but you never want to marry someone with the expectation that they’ll change, grow up more, etc.

View Quoted Comment Aw this is so cute. I incorporated something like that for my moh speech to my bff actually:


there's a famous quote and it goes: we're all a little weird, life is weird, when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness and call it love - true love. i take that to mean that when we find someone we can be our truest selves with - that's the most pure form of love found. when you can embrace one another for all you are and love and accept it all wholeheartedly, no matter how weird. vicki and dustin are the ultimate form of their weirdness with each other and i find that to be absolutely beautiful.

Remember to keep the marriage sparkling by having date nights at least 1s a month

We're a team.

Problems and disagreements and arguments will happen.

But, we're a team. We have each others' backs, and when these things happen, we have the same goal - just maybe different views or paths to get there.

When you come home after work, walk through the door with a smile, it will affect how your whole night goes.

Our priest always tells us to remember to never let our (future) kids replace our spouse. It is not wrong to put your spouse first. Your children would not be here without your love, and you need each other to be great parents.

Keep an open line of communication at all times! Honesty and communication is key to a long, happy marriage.

Always try to be the most generous person in your marriage.

So far this has been the best advice I've received, and from my lovely photographer none the less! I've been keeping this at the front of my mind and really trying to put it into practice the last couple of months, and let me tell you it has strengthened our relationship so much! This is the kind of thing that naturally gets reciprocated (I haven't even mentioned this advice to FH, but he just started picking up the slack in certain areas on his own).

Don't sweat the small stuff; an oldie but goodie!

View Quoted Comment ❤️ this is so sweet!

Being married as 18&23 yo for almost 23 years, with different background, culture, believes, characters, etc....


Patience, patience, patience!Respect. Tolerance. Forgive.Fix the problem. Don’t give up.
Communicate. Control your tone.Always choose your words wisely.
Keep the fire. Don’t bore him/her. Be faithful!!!
No one is perfect. We tend to blame others, but we are making mistakes too! Don’t be too proud to apologize first.
Whatever happens, at the end of the day hug each other to sleep.