So, obviously, I know FH and I are not perfect by any means and will have issues. BUT, being that we are both in our 30's and more 'settled' (This is not his 1st marriage but it is mine), Im wondering what 'issues' we might have, especially in the 1st year of marriage.
I've read through tons of articles and things about what makes the 1st year the toughest, but it seems like most/all of the typical issues couples have, we've already got figured out/ dealt with/doesn't apply/etc.
Here's kind a breakdown of our relationship and the 'typical' issues:
1. We've been living together for over 2 yrs. 1st yr was a transition, but pretty smooth sailing now.
2. Money. We both make good money and make jokes about who the current bread winner is, because our pay varies each week, but were always about neck and neck.
3. Bills. Other than rent, car insurance and utilities I have no bills. FH has truck payment, child support, and cell phone. We both buy groceries and toiletries for the house as the need arises. Were leaving to keep our money separate, like it is, and maybe open a joint savings account after the wedding to start saving for our 'next endeavor'. For instance, buying a house and boat are very high on our to do list after the wedding. We have discussed it and decided we will just split the house payment 50/50 once we buy.
4. In Laws- My parents have not been a part of my life for over 6 years. Do, no in law issues on my end. And FH truly has the best parents I could have asked for. They're super supportive without being over bearing and have been incredible and welcoming myself and my son in their lives.
5. The Annoying Things- Feel like we worked through this that 1st yr living together. It drives him crazy I forget to get my hair off the shower drain and I can't stand it that he will not put a new toilet paper roll on the holder.... But we both just do each for the other now. (There were some other things too but this one we argued about most lol)
So help me think of what other problems or difficulties we might encounter our 1st year?
Is there anything I'm missing or not thinking of?
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