We are doing a destination wedding so all we want is the gift of our guests presence! We also already have a home filled with junk so we don't need anything. But, I feel like a lot of traditional older guests will want to get us something. I thought about making a registry just for people who are going to buy something either way (the last thing I need is to end up with 3 toasters), but I don't want it to seem like we're asking for gifts by making it? If it were up to me we would receive 0 gifts just some heartfelt cards from those who want to give something. Best way to not get gifts??
*update: I don't want cash either, I just want them to attend and have fun. I'm concerned that people will get stressed out with trying to afford the destination wedding and getting a gift when I do not want or care about a gift