So I'm getting married in 18 days and I'm also turning 29 this Saturday. I had planned a low key night of board games and had ordered food and planned to make desert and drinks myself. However another close friend just planned their own birthday celebration going out for dinner and drinks at the same time. I know people don't get to see him that often and a lot of people are probably going to go to that (he just decided to do this today). So it likely would be low turn out and i'd have to rethink all that I had planned to order (food, drinks etc). I mentioned i was a little frustrated the other friend decided to do this at the same day and time so close to Saturday and FH mentioned that we were having a wedding and people were devoting time and energy to that for us and it was a bit much to do a birthday party on top of that. Now I feel super self conscious about it and like it was too selfish of me to even plan anything at all. Should I just cancel this? I didn't realize people might resent that.
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