My fiance and I planned to have a combined bacelorette and bachelor party..
His best man and I talked about it in January and decided to have the Marines and their Spouses combined party at their lake house a few houses away.
My friends were trying to plan me a party and I said "no no I already have plans the week before the wedding" ! I kept messaging him and asking him is the bacheorette and bachelor party still okay the Lake?" He said yes. Not a problem.
Now 2 months before the wedding (yesterday) he creates a Facebook event that has all the Marines going with HIS wife and no spouses are allowed to go and he combined it with another Marines Bachelor party.
I'm unsure if I'm more disappointed that his BestMan would go behind my back and do that to me after the discussions we had or that I'm not having a bachelorette party anymore.
I know none of his other groomsmen would do that to me and change plans behind my back. I thought we were like family but I just feel disrespected in some way. What do I do without creating drama.
I can't tell my Fiance not to go! It's his Bachelor Party now. But I'm just sad.
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